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What to Expect on Your First Prenatal Appointment

Pregnancy Life

Inside: Nervous about your first prenatal appointment? Don’t be! Remember, it is important to go to the doctor to ensure the health of you and your new little one.

Getting butterflies in your stomach after seeing those 2 little pink lines is one of the best feelings in the world!

I’m a “fear of the unknown” type of person so after taking my pregnancy test, my mind started racing a million miles an hour. And if you’re anything like me, then you probably want to find out as much information as possible about what the next steps are.

One of the most important first things you do, after you find out you’re pregnant, is to schedule an appointment with your OBGYN (Obstetrician).

Side note: Some women choose to have midwives so don’t feel boxed into what others are doing if you feel you want to do something else.

For me, this was a very scary thing.

Let’s just say I’m not the best with doctors and being probed.

I knew that the health and safety of this precious baby in me was always going to be my first priority so I wanted to make sure the baby was growing healthily and to do that I needed to go to the doctor.

Remember, it is important to go to the doctor to ensure the health of you and your new little one.

Here are 10 things you can expect on your first prenatal appointment:

  1. Paperwork
  2. Company
  3. Blood work
  4. Urine sample
  5. physical exam
  6. Due date
  7. Scheduling
  8.  Sonogram
  9. Encouragement

9 Things to Expect on Your First Prenatal Appointment

9 things you need to know on your first prenatal appointment

1. Paperwork

You will definitely be filling out paperwork at your first prenatal appointment. If you are a new patient or even a returning patient you will have to fill out some forms about your health history and personal information.

Remember to bring your insurance card, ID and to have the date on hand of your last menstrual cycle. Completing paperwork may take some time to try to arrive at your appointment at least 15 minutes before your scheduled appointment.

Ask Your Medical History

Make sure to know your medical history details before you head to your first prenatal appointment. It is important to know your medical history and even the medical history of your immediate family.

Things to know about include, high blood pressure, allergies, medication allergies, birth control methods, and the last menstrual cycle.

My doctor also asked me if my mother, grandmother, or aunts received any uterine diagnosis’. Some forms will ask you about your mother, aunts, and grandmother’s pregnancy history as well.

9 Things to expect on your first prenatal appointment

2. A Physical Exam

The prenatal physical exam is pretty similar to a routine annual GYN exam. The only difference is the tool they will use to see the baby.

The baby is not large enough yet to be seen through an ultrasound from the outside of your belly. Sooo, they will need to insert an ultrasound device internally (vaginally) to see the baby.

Now DO NOT BE ALARMED- this will be fairly quick and pretty much painless. You might feel uncomfortable and to some women, some stretching, but it will all be worth it once you see that little nugget with a heartbeat.

What The Doctor will be looking for during the exam:

The doctor will be looking for the development of the fetus, the size, and health of the uterus and most of all the baby’s heartbeat. The doctor will ensure the pregnancy is taking place where it is supposed to, in the uterus, and that you do not have any pregnancy issues.

The doctor will measure your uterus and the baby. This will also be able to tell you how far along you are!

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3. You Can Bring Your Husband (or Family Member)

You can totally bring your husband or a family member to you first prenatal appointment!

My husband refused me to go to my first appointment alone. Not only did he not want me to be alone but also really wanted to see the baby!

The doctors will be kind enough to accommodate you and your husband and allow him to go to the exam with you (if you feel comfortable). I was blessed because my husband was able to come with me to every appointment and I don’t think I would have been able to do it without him.

Throughout the pregnancy, you will undergo different exams and tests and since I’m such a chicken when it comes to needles and doctors he really was able to help me stay calm and focused. There were also a couple times that both my husband and mom were able to come with me to an ultrasound appointment.

4. Blood Work

You will have to have some blood drawn for specific tests. The doctor will inform you what the blood work is for and may give you options as to what you would like to be tested for. I was able to have a blood test tell me which immunizations I have that I passed down to my daughter.

It is also important for them to have your blood type on file.

What to expect on your first prenatal appointment: 9 things

5. Urine Sample

This one is a little obvious but relevant. You will definitely have to have a urine test before every appointment from here on out.

They will confirm your pregnancy through HCG levels and will be checking for infection or proteins in your urine- which is important. It will also help you track your hydration.

6. Expect to See Your Baby!

If you are far long enough (usually after 7 weeks or so) you will definitely be able to see your baby and its heartbeat.

The doctor will be able to give you your first sonogram picture for you to swoon over and stare at for hours on end! Yay!

Pregnant Woman and Sonogram

7. Receive Your Due Date!

Based on the doctor’s exam, the last date of your menstrual, the size of the fetus, and how far along you are, the doctor will be able to give you an estimated due date!

The date may be adjusted as the baby grows but it will give you an idea of which dates your baby may be here!

8. Schedule your Next Appointment

At the beginning of pregnancy, you will see the doctor every month, then as you grow you will see the doctor every 2 weeks, and then as you get closer to your due date every week.

9. Be Encouraged!

Expect to be encouraged at your first prenatal appointment! Your doctor will give you a list of things to be aware of, which vitamins to take, and most of all how to take care of yourself so you can grow your baby healthily!

Make sure to get rest, stay stress-free, and enjoy this wonderful time!

Going to the doctor is so important, especially during pregnancy. It is imperative to keep yourself and your little one healthy.

Going to the doctor will not only make sure everything is going smoothly but if anything does happen you will always be aware of it.

Being a mom is life-changing and taking care of your baby will now always be first so be sure to make those appointments and take of yourself and your sweet, little baby!

Always With Love, Brianna

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7 Ways To Keep Your Marriage Alive As New Parents

Marriage Life

Inside: Learn 7 practical ways to build up, add passion and keep  your marriage alive after kids.

“First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes a baby in a carriage!”

Before we were parents we were husband and wife.

Now that we’re parents sometimes we forget that we are also still a husband and a wife!

Having a baby changes everything, including your marriage..

But having a strong marriage that is alive will help you raise your baby! It’s so important to keep your marriage alive as new parents.

It’s important to remember to focus on your role as husband and wife in the midst of being parents and keep your marriage alive by continuing to grow together.

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Your Marriage is the foundation for parenting

Some may disagree but I learned that I can’t be a good mom without being a good wife first.  The same goes for my husband.

When we’re functioning as our roles of husband and wife we seem to be so much better at parenting.

We have more grace, more patience, and more love that we can shower our baby with. Finding ways to keep your marriage alive can help you be a better parent!

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Here are 7 Ways to Help You Keep Your Marriage Alive After Baby:

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7 Ways to keep your marriage alive after baby as new parents

1- Go on Dates:

When I first thought of going on a date as a new parent a million things went through my head…

“I just had a baby! I can’t leave her! Who will watch him? That money can go towards the baby!”

Trust me, I thought of it all.

But going on a date with your husband is worth it. Yes, there are going to be some details you will have to work out to make it happen. And it doesn’t have to be every week- just make sure to schedule some sort of date every month or so.

I’m not talking about leaving your newborn the first week after he’s born but just make a mental note to go out with your husband at some point after your baby is born.

Of course, wait until you have adapted to your new baby and have implemented some sort of feeding and nap schedule. A safe place to start is to try to plan to go on a date between 1-2 months after your baby is born.

You will know more or less your baby’s schedule and how your baby is if you leave for a few hours.

The first time my husband and I went out was 6 weeks after my daughter was born. We were gone for no more than 2 and half hours but the time felt like forever.

I was blessed to have my mom help me when my daughter was born and since my mom was around enough she knew Baby L’s schedule. I could trust my mom to take care of her while we went on our little date. So, I was able to leave Baby L with my mom for a couple of hours while my husband and I went out to eat.

If you don’t want to spend a lot of money then just go for a walk or grab a cup of coffee. It doesn’t have to be an expensive, long date- the goal is just to be out together and feel normal again!

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2- Have Alone Time

Having alone time is different than going on a date.

Dates are somewhat monthly while alone time is daily or weekly (usually when things aren’t super creayzy…)

You don’t have to be on a date to have alone time! Alone time consists of spending time together alone at some point during the day. Maybe it’s when the baby goes to sleep for the night or when he’s taking a little nap or has playtime.

Alone time is simple: just a husband and wife being together.

Maybe it’s watching an episode of a show or a movie that you’ve been waiting for (we have weekly Mandolarian sessions…).

Or maybe it’s just having some ice cream in bed and just enjoying having time together.

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The important thing is to be in the same room alone together but you’re not ignoring each other. It’s time just for you and your husband- whether to relax or maybe have a conversation you’ve been needing to have.

Alone time is different for everyone! Just make sure to have alone time daily or at least a couple of times a week. Talk about things you did that day or what you need to get done or just anything!

My husband and I always try to have alone time daily. Baby L & R has always been a good sleeper so after we put her down for the night we always have time together. Whether it’s to talk or watch a show or do something around the house together.

Sometimes we can’t spend the whole time the baby is sleeping with each other because we have to finish work or some task, but we always do alone time first.

Making an effort to spend time with your spouse is so important to keep the fire alive in your marriage. It’s hard to not miss the intimacy you shared when it was just the two of you and having alone time helps keep your marriage alive and grounded.

 

3- Go Out Together with Baby

It’s important to have date days but it’s also important to go out as a family.

Going out as a family reassures your love as a family and bonds you together.

Because you are uplifting your marriage you are also uplifting your family.

Have your husband do the things that you do with your baby when you are home with her. Teach him what you do with your little one so he feels like he’s involved. Maybe go out shopping or just stroll in the park. Take a Sunday to head to church or to grab a bite to eat. Anything goes as long as you’re all together.

4- Kiss Each Other Good Morning and Good Night

Having date nights and alone time may require some work but this one requires little to no work.

It’s pretty self-explanatory: kiss each other before you leave in the morning and before you go to sleep at night.

Of course, marriages need physical intimacy and that kiss twice a day can go a long way in showing your love for each other.

5- Do Something Together Weekly

Doing something together can be anything- working on the house, cooking dinner, doing the laundry, taking a walk, going to the store.

This is different than alone time because alone time can be short or long and can be doing nothing but doing something together is a designated activity.

This may just come naturally for some couples but for others, it’s important to make a conscious effort to want to do something with their spouse.

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6- Communicate

To me, communication is the biggest thing in a marriage. If you can’t talk together then there are very few things you can actually do in a marriage.

It’s so important to communicate with your husband or wife about as much as you possibly can. A lot of these tips to keep your marriage alive revolves around communicating: going on dates, spending alone time together, doing an activity together- all of these should be rooted in communication.

Of course, there are times when your activity involves not talking but communicating is different than just talking.

Communicating involves talking and listening- sending information and receiving information.

When your husband is talking be sure to truly listen and to look attentive. When you are talking to your husband be sure to talk in a way that he’ll understand and make sure that he is listening to what you are truly saying and not just to your voice.

Communication is an art and the secret weapon to keep your marriage truly alive.

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7- Take Advantage of Each Other’s Strengths

News flash: we each have strengths and weaknesses.

Knowing what you’re good at what your husband is good at will go a long way.

Sometimes there are things that I automatically take care of around the house that my husband is better at. There are things I am good at but my husband thinks he has to take care of because I am busy taking care of our baby.

Communication plays a big part in this but knowing what you’re good at and what your husband is good at helps your marriage and house function efficiently.

This also helps takes the load of one spouse and it helps both of you carry the load together. If there is something that you are feeling overwhelmed with don’t be afraid to tell your husband- chances are that he really cares about what you’re going through and he wants to help.

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The challenge I created is called the Marriage Revival Challenge, focusing on adding life to your marriage. I created this Marriage Challenge not to give you all of the “answers” but to give you the tools you need to enhance and improve your marriage.

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It’s not always easy to keep your marriage alive but man is it worth it! When you’re operating as husband and wife being a mom and dad seems to come a little easier.

Knowing you and your husband are on the same page will help to be a mom and dad seem less stressful.

Focusing on your marriage in the midst of being new parents will benefit you in so many ways- and remember, it’s easy to do!

Being a new parent may be a little overwhelming but knowing your husband has your back and you have your husband’s back is a great foundation for growing a wonderful family!

Have any other tips that keep your marriage? Feel free to share them below in the comments!

Always With Love, Brianna

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My Miscarriage Story

Mom Life

When you find out you’re pregnant there’s one word that you never want to hear. It’s the word that “should not be said”. Miscarriage.

In the back of your head you know it’s a possibility, you know it’s your worst fear. But you can’t bring yourself to say it out loud or to voice your fear. You anxiously wait for your second trimester because you know the chances significantly reduce.

All of is true to me- all of this I experienced. Except for making it to my second trimester…

My Miscarriage Story

The Test is Positive!

I found out I was pregnant in March of 2016. It was a complete surprise and shock to my husband and me! We had one of those “Oh my gosh, how did this happen??” moments that you see on TV or in movies. Once the shock faded we were flooded with pure joy. We began to rid our food cabinets of coffee and caffeinated teas (we were a little crazy haha), and I immediately stopped taking any medications or vitamins that was not recommended for a pregnant woman. Just being able to fall under the category “pregnant” made me ecstatic!

 

But then the sickness came. The nausea, the vomiting, the headaches. I swore this couldn’t be what everyone says is “morning sickness”. Not only was the sickness ALL DAY, but it seemed worse- it seemed off. I went to my first OBGYN appointment and the baby’s heartbeat was strong. I saw my little sweet pea and my heart melted. For a second, I forgot about the sickness and the fact that I felt like my body was dying. I knew it was my job to power through this sickness and make the best of carrying my little one. The doctor said everything looked great and what I was experiencing was normal. “Normal”- I sure hate that word.

I went to another appointment for a detailed test making sure the baby had implanted well and in the right place and to make sure the heartbeat was strong with no abnormalities. First, to be able to do the ultrasound I had to have a full bladder- and I couldn’t make my bladder full because NOTHING was staying down. Any liquid over 4 ounces would come right back up. I sat in the doctor’s office for 5 hours sipping an ounce of water every 15 minutes, trying to trick my body into keeping it down. But I kept on powering through and got through the test. What a victory!

The test came back perfect. No abnormalities. Strong heartbeat. Another victory!

 

The Sickness Continues…

2 weeks later I just felt dead. I knew life was inside of me but I for sure thought I was dying. I couldn’t eat, sleep, drink, walk- nothing. I was so weak from dehydration and undernourishment that I couldn’t walk up the stairs in my house to get to my bedroom. The only thing I could keep down were basic vitamins to keep my body from failing so I can continue to grow a healthy baby. When I did feel better I would try to eat and then the sickness would start all over again. One day my husband came home from work and found me passed out on the bathroom floor. Next thing I knew I was half awake in a car- on the way to the Emergency Room.

After spending the whole night in an ER room with countless doctors trying to find veins to insert an IV for nausea and hydration, I felt better. I was diagnosed with severe morning sickness called hyperemesis gravidarum. I was given nausea medication that dissolved in my mouth and would help me eat and drink. It was the first time in weeks that I could think clearly. I thought to myself, this is it – my turn around!

 

The Next Appointment

I went to my next appointment, which was the 12-week appointment. I was SO excited to be going into my second trimester because I knew that morning sickness would subside and that I was coming out of the risk of having a miscarriage “the word that must not be said”. The doctor came in and performed the ultrasound. She was quiet and breathing short but steadily. She then went and did the ultrasound again. I was starting to get nervous and panicky- and she noticed. Finally, she looked at me and my husband and said the 5 words that would change our lives- “I don’t see the heartbeat.”

 

My heart sank. My blood pressure dropped. My mind raced.

I thought to myself “no, it’s a mistake”. I went through a 5-second denial and pretended I didn’t know what she meant. But I knew what she meant. I just couldn’t hear it, I couldn’t bear it.

My eyes welled up in what felt like I was holding back a flood. But I couldn’t hold it back anymore. I felt my eyes began to flood and my face stiffen. I looked at my husband and he was pale with bloodshot, teary eyes.

 

The doctor softly told us that about a week ago our precious baby’s heart had stopped beating, without explanation. She gave us time to process and then went on to state our options. She recommended a D&C and promised me that she would perform the surgery herself and remove my baby in the most delicate way. I had to schedule the surgery for the next day and pray that I can keep it together long enough to make it through the night.

 

The Aftershock

I had only told my immediate family about the pregnancy, and I’m so glad that I used that discernment. They comforted me and came with me to my procedure. My husband and I cried all night and all morning. I’ll never forget his face as I went into pre-op and had to leave him. He was trying so hard to be strong for me but I could see in his eyes that he was just as broken as I was.

After the procedure, I woke up and asked if my baby was okay- thinking that somehow it was all a dream. I was informed that the procedure went well and that I can try to have another baby as soon as possible.

Another baby- the words hit me like a ton of bricks. I grew a baby and had a baby. I was forever a mom even though my precious little one was not physically with me.

 

3 Months Later…

3 months later I found out I was pregnant again and even though I was so overjoyed I was sad. I was sad because I knew I would have been at least 6 months with my first baby. Then fear came in. What if the same thing happens to me?? It took everything in me to stay positive those first 12 weeks. It took everything in me to not worry about this baby’s health. I did everything I could to stay healthy, eat healthily and stay positive. I refused to let fear grip me and rob me of my pregnancy with my next baby.

And in April 2017 I had my beautiful little girl. She’s my rainbow baby, my pride and joy, and my life.

 

From Then to Now

Having a miscarriage changed my life. It changed how I view life. It made me appreciate what I have and the life that comes from me. It made me appreciate my husband and how strong he is. It showed me how strong I was and showed me a lot about myself. My miscarriage made me compassionate for all mothers and gave me hope that even though bad things happen- good can come from it.

 

In no way, shape, or form am I grateful for my miscarriage. I’m not happy it happened nor do I wish it on my worst enemy. But it’s a part of life and if it does happen, take it one day at a time. You don’t have to be strong. You don’t have to prove yourself to anyone. It’s okay to be sad. It’s okay to mourn. It’s okay to be weak. It’s okay to need someone.

 

Even as I write this, I’m immediately flooded back with the memories as if it’s happening all over again. And even though it was the worst thing to ever happen to me I’m now able to be there for other mothers who experience this tragedy.

 

A miscarriage is the loss of a life. 3 years later I still feel the loss every single day and think of my little baby in heaven. That little sweet pea is just as a part of me as my daughter and we celebrate him every year on the day that was supposed to be his birthday, his due date December 1st!

 

Have you suffered a loss due to a miscarriage and feel like sharing? Don’t hesitate to contact me or share in the comments below. We are all in this together!

My Journey to Being a Stay At Home Mom

Mom Life

When someone asks me who I am I always respond with: a wife and stay at home mom. It’s who I am. My life and occupation.

I’ll admit that I haven’t always been super excited to say that I am just a stay at home mom but I’ve learned some things along the way that helped me change my perspective…

My Journey to Being a Stay at Home Mom

My Background

If someone one told me at my high school graduation that I would be where I am at today I would not believe them. My dreams of being an Ivy League College graduate living in Los Angeles in a glamorous mansion while I planned extravagant weddings quickly turned into reality after high school. I was born and raised in New York City and my parents worked really hard for our family and to provide for my brothers and me. My parents were able to put us in private school and worked hard to keep us educated and accomplished.

I was accepted to every college I applied for but my family fell into that “middle-class sweet spot” where my hard-working parents earned too much income for me to qualify for financial assistance but didn’t quite make enough to afford the million-dollar colleges of my dreams. After all, I did have 2 other siblings who needed to go to college too!

But it all worked out! I attended a vocational school, loved what I was studying and loved that I was making a difference. I met my husband at this college- so looking back now I’m so grateful that I didn’t attend my dream college because I wouldn’t have met my dream husband and have my beautiful daughter. I worked hard at online business classes and became a registrar of a school managing 4 departments and directing several events.

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Fast Forward To Now

When I found out I was pregnant I was teaching 12th grade in a private school in New York City and finishing up my business degree. I tried so hard to power through my morning sickness-  like all day sickness- but I ended up experiencing a miscarriage and it was devastating. (You can read more about my miscarriage story here.)

I got pregnant again 4 months later and this pregnancy was soo much smoother! But I was battling with high blood pressure from all of the water retention and I eventually had to stop working in my 8th month of pregnancy. I successfully delivered my beautiful daughter and everything in me longed to stay at home with her and care for her while she grew. I went from never wanting to be a “mom who just stays home” to longing to being a stay at home mom. So I decided not to return to work and my husband was blessed with a new job that allowed me to be a stay at home mom!

5 years ago, the words “stay at home mom” scared me. I was a professional woman- a woman with a million lists and a huge agenda. I thought I would never give up all of my hard work in becoming a respected, established businesswoman to stay at home with my kids. In theory, this sounded crazy to me!

My plan was to take maternity leave, return to work after the 10 weeks and convince my mom to babysit for me. But the moment I saw my little girl emerge into this world and felt her skin on my chest I was melted forever. At that moment I knew I would give up anything and everything in this world to be able to tend to her, take care of her and watch her grow day in and day out.

That’s not to say that I will never return to work, but for right now, this is what is best for my particular family. And ever woman has a right to make her own choice about what is best for her family!

Loving Who I Am

My life may not have turned out how I expected but I wouldn’t change it for the world. When I identify myself as a wife and stay at home mom I have a purpose- I love who I am and who I’ve become. It may be different than what I expected but that just gives me a reason to love my life all the more! I’m not only a mom- I’ve learned to be a mastering mom!

Don’t be afraid to follow your dreams- and if down the road they change, just go with the flow and pursue what you love to do with confidence!

My Road To The Blogging World

Mom Life

Why should I start a blog? Who am I and what do I have to offer?

I’ve asked myself these questions about a million times before I actually took the leap to start my own blog. The blogging world has been so helpful to me that I wanted to contribute to the “mom blog” community but was so afraid that I wouldn’t have anything to offer. I just kept thinking to myself “I’m too small of a fish in a gigantic ocean.” But after so many people started asking me question after having my daughter, I knew that starting a blog is something that I can do!

But then I started to remember my story: how I ended up pregnant, how I battled severe morning sickness (hyperemesis gravidarum), how went through a miscarriage, how I battled with colic and fussiness and so much more. Maybe my story was something that could be heard and even help other mothers facing the same situations.

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Why I Thought I Could Start a Blog

My pregnancy and delivery were life-changing. I actually was pregnant before I had my daughter but I miscarried. (You can read the story of my heartbreaking miscarriage here.) Then when my daughter was born we encountered colic, gas, fussiness, breastfeeding issues, formula issues and everything in between. I found myself giving advice to new mothers and my pregnant friends would call me to ask me questions. I loved being able to not only share my stories and experiences but also help new mothers who were going through things that were overwhelming, frustrating and even scary.

One day my husband told me that I should start a blog and it was like a lightbulb went on!

I purposed myself to learn everything I possibly could about starting a blog, but not just any blog- a successful blog. From reading countless success stories I even began to think that I can build a profitable blog! This started to give me confidence that I haven’t felt in months, the confidence in myself think maybe I have something to offer the “mom blog” community. I mean who doesn’t want to be a “mom boss”?! I did my research, invested my time and money and signed up for the what I heard was best blogging course around, Elite Blog Academy.

 

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Why I Started This Blog

I started this blog to help mothers and new families through the journey of becoming a mom. I discovered so many tips that helped me and my husband through the times of uncertainty and exhaustion. We came up with routines that were life changing and I created lists and schedules that got me through the hard days that I would love to share with those who can identify with our experiences. I ultimately started this blog to let other parents know they are not alone!

Being a parent is wonderful but super exhausting. It’s easy to get caught up in the unpredictability of parenthood and mom life that we sometimes find ourselves unhappy. But we can take those hard days, weary days, and dreary days and turn them into something beautiful- together we can master mom life!

This road to blogging has been challenging but I have learned a multitude of information and gained a new-found confidence in myself all while still being able to stay at home with my beautiful daughter and raise her.

 

Blogging isn’t about me or the income or the fame. It’s about helping moms and parents all around the world who need some encouragement, advice, tips, a pat on the pack, a thumbs up, and anything else I can offer them!

Thinking of starting a blog or sharing your hard-earned advice with the world? You can do it!