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Gifts for Stay At Home Moms

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Stay At Home Mom Gift Guide | Gifts for Stay At Home Moms

Inside: Wracking your brain trying to think of the perfect gifts for stay at home moms? Keep reading to find over 25 gift ideas!

Stay at home moms are used to sleepless nights, long days, and spit-up t-shirts. As much as you may want to shower her with gifts, sometimes it’s not the easiest to find the perfect gift.

As a stay at home mom, I know exactly the gifts for stay at home moms that she would love and actually use!

Stay at home moms are busy and selfless so a lot of the gifts they would love to receive are things that would make them focus on self-care, leisure, and things to help them better their household and selves.

Don’t know exactly what to get her- that’s okay! Because here is an entire gift guide dedicated to gifts for stay at home moms!

Gifts for Stay At Home Moms 

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The important thing about ANY gift is that it’s from the heart. No matter how inexpensive or expensive a gift may be, all that matters is that you put thought, love, and kindness into it. The same goes for any gift you give a stay at home mom.

Body Care Made for Mamas

One of the best gifts you can give a stay at home mom is the gift of rest and relaxation. Something to make her close her eyes and breathe.

My absolute favorite body care is from Babe and Body. These products are specifically made for moms, by moms! They are 100% natural products with organic ingredients specifically created for a mom’s pregnant and postpartum body.

I personally own 4 of their products and I can honestly say these Babe and Body scrubs are the highlight of my evening. Whether I’m taking a bath and using the luxurious body scrub or moisturizing my lips with the decadent lip scrub, their products always make me feel like a million bucks.

Any stay at home mom would love to feel pampered like a princess!

Check out Babe and Body for amazing gifts any mama would love.

Pajamas

Pj’s are always a great gift for stay at home moms because who doesn’t love a great set of pajamas!

You can get her a dress type of pajamas, or a full on 2 piece flannel all cotton PJ set.

Stay at Home Outfit

A lot of people assume that because stay at home moms are “at home” all day that they wear pajamas all day long. Not true! In fact, one of the first things I do in the morning is get dressed. It makes you feel accomplished, even if you don’t plan to leave the house that day.

Because stay at home moms can be in the house all day, especially if you have a little baby, then you want to get her some clothes that she can wear in the house that aren’t pajamas. That way, it helps compartmentalize her day and night.

A stay at home mom outfit can consist of some nice stretchy legging or yoga pants and a sweater or a cotton t-shirt and a flannel button down.

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Robe

A gift that any mom or woman would love to receive is a nice, comfy robe! Robes are especially nice in the cool months to help you keep warm. You can throw it over some pajamas or even over an outfit while you get your kids ready.

A robe like this is really nice!

Massage

Another great gift for stay at home moms is a massage! Who doesn’t love a relaxing massage??

Stay at home moms are constantly busy and thinking of their family instead of themselves so giving a gift of relaxation and comfort is a great option! This also gets her out of the house for some much-needed self-care so it’s a win/win!

 

Mini purse

Moms have SO MANY things to carry when she goes out.

I decided to switch my regular over the shoulder purse for a mini bookbag purse, that way I can carry the diaper bag on my arm, my baby in the other arm, and push the stroller with my free hands.

Having a mini purse helps me know that I have all of my important documents and items on me without having to lug around a huge purse.

Mani/pedicure

Staying in the same relaxation category, a manicure and pedicure is another fantastic gift for stay at home moms!

Many moms don’t want to spend money on themselves and definitely don’t focus on their nails every second of the day. Between doing dishes, laundry, changing diapers, and cooking- nice nails may be the last thing on her to-do list. Give her the gift of a special manicure and pedicure that she’ll love!

Perfect Gift Ideas for Stay at Home moms

DIY Home spa bath

Relaxation gift #3 (can you see the trend??). You don’t have to give a costly massage or manicure/pedicure- instead, you can give her the gift of a DIY home spa bath. Everyone loves a great, relaxing bath with candles and a comforting aroma.

You can get her some organic bath bombs and some candles or a full DIY spa kit! The options are limitless.

 

Essential Oil Kit

Essential oils are one of those things that are skyrocketing in trend. You can use them for absolutely everything- from cleaning, to sleeping, to cold remedies, to relaxation.

Giving the gift of an essential oil kit can give her the options to use the oils as she pleases! You can even add some essential oils to her bath spa kit as I mentioned above!

Ready to Make Food Jars

Ready to make food jars is another awesome gift for stay at home moms! A ready to make food jar is one of those mason food jars that has all of the ingredients to a meal or dessert and all you have to do is mix it all together.

The cool thing about this gift is you can make it yourself and any mom would appreciate the thought and effort that you put into it! You can do a jar with cookie ingredients, brownie ingredients, a soup mixture that all she has to do is add stock or water, and so many more!

This gift is great because it’s an easy go-to meal or dessert when she wants to make something quick and easy!

 

Mom mug

A mom mug is an amazing gift for stay at home moms because it’s fun and is something she can actually use! This is a great gift option for your coffee or tea addict mom friends! (Click the image below to purchase!)

Mom T-shirt

Who doesn’t love a fun t-shirt?? A mom t-shirt is a fun gift for stay at home moms because she can wear it loud and proudly! I always love a good t-shirt that I can throw on with a pair of leggings or jeans with a sweater or jacket.

Stay at home moms are always on the move and comfortability and easy to wear is a must. But we can look cute while on the move! (Click the image below to purchase!)

Coffee

Have a mom friend who is a coffee lover?? Another great gift option for stay at home moms is some of her favorite coffee grounds, beans, or coffee pods. Feel free to get her something that you know she wouldn’t get for herself!

Mom Planner!

A mom planner is a perfect gift for stay at home moms because it will help her organize, plan, and track her everyday tasks in one easy to use place!

I designed this planning organizer to specifically help moms overcome the chaos of mom life. Tracking your family’s activities and managing your own day can be a really big burden. But with the Master Family Planner, you can plan, track, and organize your entire family’s life in ONE place!

It’s a printable, digital planner which includes over 50 pages of schedules, templates, calendars & more!

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Well, there you have it- some awesome gifts for stay at home moms!

Remember, you want to get her something that is thoughtful, heartfelt, and something to make her feel special. Maybe even get her something that helps her easily accomplish her daily tasks or something that is easy to use and easy to wear.

Stay at home moms aren’t “cookie-cutter” and aren’t all the same so be sure to think of her likes, interests, wants, and needs.

Happy Gift Giving!

Always With Love, Brianna

Still having trouble thinking of something she would love? Check out my post “How to Come Up With Perfect Christmas Gift Ideas”!

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December 12, 2018 · 8 Comments

Tips to Help You Out of Your Mom Fog

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Tips to get you out of your mom fog

Inside: As a busy mom it’s so easy to find yourself lost in “mom fog”. Check out these practical and realistic tips that can help you out of your mom fog and learn how to stay out!

It was 2:00pm but it felt like 2:00am. My eyes were heavy, my hair looked like a bird’s nest, and I was moving at a sloth’s pace. I see my husband talking but all I heard was the sound of white noise. I was consumed by my mom fog and was failing to take care of myself.

Being a mom is amazing but when you become a mother, everything about you changes. Your priorities, your responsibilities, your daily tasks — everything. But what do you do when you feel like you lost yourself to motherhood?

First and foremost, you need to KNOW that feeling like you are lost in a mom fog is completely normal. Almost every mom experiences this feeling in some shape or form. Whether its 100% or 5%.

Do NOT beat yourself up when you feel overwhelmed with motherhood!

When you feel like you are losing yourself to motherhood, the most important thing to do is to be preventative and to take care of yourself- emotionally, mentally, and physically- right away.

We all know that motherhood is not for the faint of heart but when you find ways to encourage yourself and surround yourself with a support system, things become SO much easier!

Here are some tips to help you out of mom fog- when you feel like you are just lost, overwhelmed, and stressed with mom life.

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What “mom fog” may feel like:

  • You feel “trapped”
  • You may feel you “lost yourself to motherhood”
  • You can easily get stir crazy being at home for long periods of time
  • You can be easily irritated and lose your patience
  • You don’t do your beauty or health routines that you did before you were a mom
  • You feel you need “space”
  • You feel you never have time alone
  • You feel your whole day revolves around your children’s schedule
  • You rarely buy anything for yourself or focus on things you like to do

 

Tips to Help You Out of Your Mom Fog

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Share your feelings & Find Support

One of the most important things to do when you feel you are lost in a mom fog is to find support and share your feelings with someone you love. Don’t bottle up your feelings and feel like the world is against you.

Raising a baby takes a village, and so does being a mom. Having people around you that love you, support you and care for you is essential!

Even if you feel like they won’t understand, take a chance and trust someone with how you are feeling. You might be surprised at how much they understand you. Or talk to another mother- she may be able to encourage you and tell you that she went through the same thing!

Trust me, every mother experiences some sort of mom fog!

Focus on Self Care and Rest

 

Focus on self-care

Mom life is all about being selfless. It’s putting all of your energy into caring for another human being. But sometimes we focus so much on caring for our children and family that we forget to care for ourselves.

Making time to pamper yourself and tend to YOU is SO crucial.

Think of yourself as a cup. In order to “pour out” into your baby and your husband and your family, your cup needs to be full. Or else you will be pouring out nothing!

Self-care is willingly choosing to fill up your cup. Do things that make you happy. Go out for coffee. Get your nails done. Take a long bubble bath. Or wake up every morning and read a chapter of your favorite book. Do anything that is focusing on YOU!

One day at a time!

Take a step back

When you start to feel like you are head deep in a mom fog, you need to take a step back. Maybe have your husband put the kids down for bed or go for a walk or a drive to your favorite place. You want to remove yourself from the situation that is making you feel lost.

The best thing to do when I start to feel like I’m losing myself is to immediately to be preventative. Taking a step back can be the very thing you need to do in order to prevent losing yourself even further.

Take a breather and try to engulf yourself is things that make you feel better and valuable.

Holding Hands | Spending Time with Your Spouse

 

Spend time with your spouse

I know this seems crazy, but one of the things that REALLY helps me when I’m feeling lost in mom fog is to spend alone time with my husband. For some reason it makes me remember all of the times that we were just husband and wife and not mom and dad.

And it makes me feel SO much better. A lot of the time we think because we are a mom that we have to do things all by ourselves. But just like Superman needs his power from the sun, so do we.

Spending some quality time with your spouse can be the “power source” you need that can stabilize you and encourage you on a weekly or daily basis. When I’m honest with my husband about what I’m feeling, he has this habit of just taking away all of my worries by telling me what I need to hear.


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Find something that will encourage you daily

Feeling like you are in a huge mom fog can be something that occurs more than once. But you want to be able to prevent that sinking feeling by having things on hand that you know is guaranteed to encourage you.

Try to find things that you know will encourage you on a daily basis. Try to pinpoint the things that make you feel like you are losing yourself and combat those things with encouragement.

Maybe you can make a weekly schedule that is just for you that has all of the things that you want to accomplish for yourself. Write down the things you want to eat that week, or how many times you want to exercise, or the times that you want some alone time. Do things that make you feel GOOD!

Mama Love

Remember that being a mom is the best job in the world!

I know it’s really easy to get overwhelmed and stressed about all of the things that come along with being a mother but it’s so important to remember how amazing mom life is.

Sure, it may be something that’s completely different than what you were doing before you had your baby but motherhood is just that- a whole new world.

Being a mom is the hardest thing I’ve ever done but it’s also the most satisfying and rewarding thing I’ve ever experienced. For every bad day, for every diaper splatter, for every long night, and sleepless day comes beautiful, rewarding, worthwhile moments with your baby.

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One of the greatest tips to battling and preventing mom fog is to truly commit time to your self-care. You may not have a lot of time to focus on yourself, but even 5 minutes every couple of days is enough.

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Even though I am crazy busy and super stressed, I wouldn’t want to be doing anything else than being there for my children and being the one to see them grow every day.

So now, every time I feel like I’m being so consumed by my mom fog that I’m spacing out and hearing white nose, I find my baby and give her a big kiss!

When you feel lost, frustrated, irritated, and overwhelmed, give your baby a big kiss and hug and know that this time will be gone in a blink of an eye so be sure to enjoy it!

You are doing a great job, momma! Don’t give up!

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November 15, 2018 · 3 Comments

Easy DIY Gifts For Mom

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I absolutely LOVE Christmas! But what I love the MOST is gift giving! I love to be able to spoil my family and friends with gifts not just because it’s Christmas and they need a gift, but because they genuinely deserve something special. And because I believe so much in the idea of giving heartfelt gifts, I wanted to give you some really great DIY gifts for mom ideas!

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Moms are so special and they deserve a gift that they will truly appreciate and that comes from the heart. So, I created this awesome list of DIY gifts for mom to help you with ideas of what you can make for your mom or any mom you know!

I always loved and appreciated my mom but it wasn’t until I actually became a mom that I realized HOW MUCH my mom did for me and how much she sacrificed for me. And because of that, I know that moms all around the world deserve something not only special but something handmade and straight from the heart.

I spend a lot of time making my Christmas lists and thinking of the perfect gifts for my family and friends so to help you, even more, I created this free Christmas List & Budget Planner so you can organize your Christmas List and complete your Christmas Shopping stress-free! Be sure to download my free Christmas Planner now so you can use these DIY gift ideas to help you make your Christmas list!

 

So, let’s get down to the awesome DIY Gift for mom ideas!

  

6 DIY Gifts for Mom

 Diy Gifts for mom 1

Photo Gift Instagram Picture Frame

I absolutely LOVE this DIY gift for mom because I love taking pictures. I usually find that at the end of the year I have hundreds and hundreds of pictures from family gatherings and vacations. So, about 3 years ago I started using those photos that I had from throughout the year and using them in my Christmas gifts. I would print the image on an ornament, or print out the picture and put it in a pretty handmade frame.

DIY Photo Gift Instagram Picture Frame

But this DIY gift for mom is SO cool because it’s a picture frame that you can easily make yourself and put your printed pictures in them! This gift is so amazing that you can use it for any family member too, not just mom!

Check out the full tutorial for this Photo Gift Instagram Picture Frame by Emily Counts over at Small Stuff Counts!

DIY Gifts 2

Sparkle Ring/Trinket Dish

I don’t know about you but I have A LOT of jewelry. From earrings to rings, to necklaces, to pins, to bracelets! I’m sure a lot of women and moms have a lot of jewelry so as much as we would love to buy them jewelry all the time, it’s probably not the smartest thing to do. But instead of buying jewelry, you can make this really great DIY Sparkle Ring Dish to help them organize some of the jewelry they already have instead!

DIY Ring Dish

This ring dish is an awesome DIY gift for mom! Read the full tutorial for this Sparkle Ring Dish over at A Modern Cinderella.

Blogger Ashley Kurtz, the founder and content creator of A Modern Cinderella says it best:

“Moms probably already have a closet brimming with lotions and coffees, so why not gift them a trinket dish instead? These DIY Sparkle Ring Dishes are inexpensive, easy-to-make so the kids can help and are wonderful for gift giving!”

 

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Lip Scrub

Another amazing DIY gift for mom is this Lavender Vanilla Lip Scrub. I love using quality ingredients, chemical free lotions, and scrubs so I know this is something I would definitely LOVE to get as a gift. You would think that making a homemade lip scrub is hard but Chelsea Johnson, the founder of Making Manzanita, makes it SO easy and walks you through each step (with pictures!).

DIY Lavender Lip Scrub

I don’t know what mom wouldn’t love a lip scrub, especially one handmade with love and care!

Don’t forget to check out the Lavender Vanilla Lip Scrub full tutorial from Chelsea Johnson over at Making Manzanita!

 

Gifts for mom 4

Marble Clay Ring Holder

Another easy to make and useful DIY gift for mom is this Marble Clay Ring Holder. You can find this easy to follow tutorial over at A Modern Cinderella by Ashley Kurtz. (You can also find her DIY ring dish there too!)

DIY Ring Holder

Ashley Kurtz from A Modern Cinderella really make some amazing points:

“Although I don’t know a mom that doesn’t cherish a handmade gift from her child, some of the gifts lack in longevity, and after a while, they can really start to take up space. These Marble Ring Holders are inexpensive, easy-to-make, and have a lot of room for customization! Kids will love marbling and shaping the clay, and moms will love a gift that is beautiful and practical!”

Here’s the full tutorial!

 

Gifts for Mom 5

Lotion Bars

Here’s another awesome DIY gift for mom that she will surely love! These Lotion Bars are super easy to make and only need 4 ingredients. The lotion bars are also used to heal cracked or rough hands. It’s like a 2 in 1 gift!

DIY Lotion Bar

You can find out all about how to make these amazing lotion bars over at Dogwoods & Dandelions where Julie B. tells you all about these lotions bars and how to make them. She includes a ton of pictures to help guide you through how to make a lotion bar too!

Check out the full tutorial here!

 

Gifts for Mom 6

Reusable Gift Sacks

And last but not least this DIY gift for mom is actually something that you can make in addition to another gift because it’s a pretty reusable gift sack! So not only can you make a heartfelt gift for mom but you can also make a reusable gift sack to wrap it in and it becomes a second mini gift!

How cool is that??

DIY Reusable Gift Sack

You can also make these gift sacks for all of your friends and family, not just mom!

Learn all about how to make these cute reusable gift sacks and it may even become a Christmas tradition or something that you can make year-round for other holidays and celebrations.

April Lee from Our Real Life shows you how to make this easy to do DIY gift! Read the full tutorial here.

 

Well, there you have it! Here are 6 super useful, awesome, easy to make DIY gifts for mom! You can make them as Christmas gifts or even save the tutorial for a birthday gift or a Mother’s Day gift idea.

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  • Help track Christmas gift ideas,
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  • Keep track of the gifts you need to purchase,
  • Track sales for the items you want to buy,
  • Includes shopping lists that will help you master your Christmas Shopping and stay organized!

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Moms are so special and they deserve a gift that they will truly appreciate and that comes from the heart. I hope you enjoyed this awesome list of DIY gifts for mom to help you with ideas of what you can make for your mom or any mom you know!

Have any other gift ideas?? Feel free to let me know in the comments below!

Always With Love, Brianna

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November 14, 2018 · 2 Comments

Did You Chose To Formula Feed? That’s Ok!

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Encouragement for the Mom who Formula Feeds

Feel guilty about formula feeding? Don’t! Feeding your baby what is best for him is all that matters, even if that means you have to formula feed. Looking for some encouragement?? Keep reading!

I was pushing my baby’s stroller through the mall, joyfully window shopping. It was the first time I ventured out into the public as a new mom with my infant. But then my daughter started to squirm and softly cry, letting me know that it was time for her to eat.

I started to panic. Where do I feed my baby??

I sat on a bench in the mall and started shaking her bottle, mixing the formula powder and water.

And that’s when I saw it…. a disapproving lady staring me down, angrily shaking her head at me.

My heart dropped to the pit of my stomach and I felt sick. I was torn between wanting to ball my eyes out or throw a bottle at her.

That lady didn’t know it, but she planted a seed of guilt in me that I had to work so hard to remove.

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“Breast is best”- I’ve heard it a million times…

The shaming that goes on between breastfeeding and formula feeding is actually just that– a shame. If you’re reading this then for whatever reason that you needed to, you chose to formula feed your baby. And that is 100% OKAY!

As women, we go through so many different changes. We are constantly given different advice, options, and choices to make. But one of the really important decisions that you are going to make is how and what you are going to feed your baby.

I strongly believe that this decision is up to the parents of the child and should be dealt with delicately and sympathetically.

The truth is: not ALL women can breastfeed. Not ALL babies can be breastfed. And not ALL women are going to choose to breastfeed. But feeding your baby what is best for them is all that matters, even if that means you have to formula feed.

 

Yes, I Do…

Yes, I formula feed my baby. There are countless situations where a mother cannot breastfeed her baby and most of the reasons a woman can’t breastfeed are usually medical or out of her control.

Some reasons include:

  • latching issues,
  • bonding issues,
  • if you weren’t able to breastfeed your baby right away then your milk may have not come in,
  • if your baby was formula fed by nurses first they may not want to breastfeed,
  • if you had certain medications labor and your milk cannot be fed to your baby,
  • if your baby is allergic to something that you are eating and is showing symptoms of a food sensitivity,
  • and so many more reasons!

Your reason to formula feed is your own

And if for whatever reason that you chose to formula feed your baby, you are not alone and you are not wrong.

I am not an advocate for formula feeding, nor am I an advocate for breastfeeding. I am purely an advocate for feeding your baby the best way and the best milk that is best for your baby and your family.

 

Mom Shaming is Not Cool

That lady at the mall who scolded me with her eyes was mom shaming me. She kept circling my seat and staring and shaking her head at.

It made me feel TERRIBLE and I wanted to cry. I was already battling with shame and guilt that I couldn’t fully breastfeed and this lady took it upon herself to make me feel worse about myself!

Little did that lady know that I was struggling with breastfeeding. She didn’t know that my daughter was extremely gassy and fussy every time she ate from me and when I started supplementing with formula is when my daughter was happier, slept better, and her tummy was pain-free.

I made the choice to formula feed my daughter for her and my overall health. But I was always told that “breast is best” so I felt like I want to give my daughter the “best” even though I knew as her mother that she was healthier with supplemented formula.

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You know what is best for your baby

This lady did not know my story. This lady did not know my shame.

I needed to believe that I decided what was best for my daughter, and not let society and other people tell me what was best for her.

Society was not there when my daughter would breastfeed and would crying for an hour afterward. That lady was not there when I would try to breastfeed in the middle of the night and be crying because I didn’t know if my daughter would react to it.

But as her mother, I was there. And because I knew my daughter best, only I could make the decision as to what is best.

So, my encouragement is this- no matter what your story is, you deserve to feel a peace about the choice that you made regarding your baby’s milk.

You know what is best for your baby!

 

Things don’t always go as planned, and that’s okay!

Even though I planned to breastfeed and was excited to be able to breastfeed, it turns out that I just couldn’t. I took all the classes, bought all the supplies, prepared my mind and body for it but when it came to down to it, it just didn’t work out for me and my baby.

And it took me a LONG time to get over my shame but when I realized that I know what’s best for my baby then the shame and guilt naturally fell off of me.

You are your baby’s mother

Don’t let others dictate how you feel about feeding your baby. You are your baby’s mother. You carried that baby in you and birthed your baby out. You battled morning sickness, weary days, sleepless nights and a labor and delivery.

Only you and your spouse can decide what is right or wrong for your baby.

 

Mom Friends

Surround yourself 

I can’t explain how important a healthy support system is. Some support systems are toxic, while others are healthy and encouraging. Surround yourself with people who understand you, understand your story, and understand your baby.

Find a doctor that supports you and that you feel comfortable with. Find a support system that understands what you went through and that can encourage you.

Because the fact of the matter is that YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

You are Not alone

Don’t let guilt or shame overtake you

Do not let fear, guilt or shame be the deciding factor for how or what you feed your baby. As long as you keep your baby’s health as the number one priority, then you are already doing what is best for your baby. If you formula feed your baby it does not mean that you are not doing what is best for your little one.

Your identity as a mother does not rest on whether you can breastfeed, if your baby is breastfed, or if you formula feed your baby. Your identity as a mother rests on the fact that you are your baby’s mother and you want the absolute best for your baby. Even if the best doesn’t line up with what others are saying is the “best”.

There will be a million other decisions you have to make as a parent that will make others shame you and turn their heads. But doing what is best for your baby is what makes you a great mother.

Mama Love

It’s okay to be sensitive

I desperately wanted to breastfeed. It was something that I longed for. But the act of giving up the need to feed my baby the way that I thought was best is in order to feed her in the way that was best for HER was the most selfless act I could do. And no matter how much time goes by, I still feel sensitive about the topic because it was my intention to breastfeed but it just didn’t work out.

Putting your baby first is what is “best”.

And even though society will tell you that you are not doing what is best for your baby by formula feeding, that simply is not true. While I understand and agree with the benefits of breastfeeding, the simple truth is that if someone cannot do it then they just cannot do it.

And if you know that you are doing the BEST for your baby by formula feeding then you are not alone!

Encouragement for the Mom who Formula Feeds

You are not alone

To the mother who feels ashamed for buying formula in the store,

To the mother who hates the disapproving glances from strangers as she shakes her baby’s formula bottle,

To the mother who feels inadequate for not being able to breastfeed,

To the mother who feels guilty for not wanting to breastfeed,

To the mother who is overwhelmed with breastfeeding,

To the mother whose milk is not coming in fast enough,

To the mother who did not have immediate contact with her baby after labor and delivery and therefore cannot breastfeed,

To the mother who breastfeeding is too painful,

To the mother whose baby is allergic or has reactions to her breastmilk….

You are not alone.

You are not wrong.

You are not a quitter.

Do what is best for YOUR baby because after all, FED is what’s best!

 

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If you want to learn more about the awesome benefits of having a schedule for your baby and how feedings directly affect your baby’s sleeping and activity patterns, check out these posts!

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Remember, you know what is best for your baby! If you chose to formula feed and stop breastfeeding then you have a reason for it and you deserve to be acknowledged and not shamed. Be encouraged that you are doing what is best! Please feel free to contact me if you need support or simply to share your story.

As always, I am here to encourage and uplift in any way I can!

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Fast & Easy Postpartum Recovery: Best 19 Essentials for the First Time Mom

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Essentials for Quick and Easy Postpartum Recovery

Inside: To help you heal as fast as possible, here is the ultimate list of essentials for a quick and pain free postpartum recovery! Plus a FREE essentials checklist!

The miracle of life is amazing! But… it’s also extremely painful.

Right after delivery, I remember thinking to myself “Why in the world did no one explain this pain to me like the worst pain I will ever experience??” 😅

Between pain from possible switches, pain when you potty, inability to remotely touch “down there”, and even pain to walk..let’s just say it’s faarrrr from a feeling like you’re at a party.

Hello, postpartum recovery!

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The good news is, there are things you can do to help you heal faster and feel as pain-free as possible, which is an amazing silver lining after what you just went through!

Today, I’m going to share with you the ultimate list of postpartum recovery essentials to make you feel better and feel more like yourself in no time!

But instead of jumping right to gory details of how your body will feel, I wanted to give you the solution to the pain instead of just talking about the pain. Sounds good right?!

To help you heal as fast as possible, I wanted to share with you the ultimate list of essentials for fast and pain-free postpartum recovery!

Essentials for Quick and Easy Postpartum Recovery

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I didn’t have an amazing list of essentials prior to my postpartum recovery so I had to purchase the essentials quickly.

I obviously wasn’t able to stroll to the store, and I didn’t want to burden my husband with picking up a bunch of feminine products, so Amazon became my friend.

Not only was I able to purchase everything on my phone, and it gets delivered straight to my house,e preventing a trip to the store but I also saved a bunch of money because the items were cheaper on Amazon compared to my local drugstore!

I included all of the links to the products below so if you want to purchase something, just click on the link- super easy!

So, let’s dive in postpartum recovery essentials!

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Postpartum Recovery: Bathroom Essentials

Postpartum Recovery Bathroom Essentials

Mega pads

After you give birth, your nurses will supply you with a bucket of mesh underwear and super long, thick, mega pads.

It’s no surprise that you will be bleeding pretty heavily after delivery but it may surprise you HOW much you may be bleeding.

Each woman is different so no 2 experiences are the same but when you get released from the hospital you want to make sure that you have enough pads handy. Bleeding can last anywhere from 2-6 weeks so make sure to have enough!

I tried 3 different brands but these are the ones that worked the best for me! They are not only come in different lengths & sizes but they also have wings so the pad can stay in place and it prevents overflowing and accidents.

The best pad that I tried that is not super thick and uncomfortable but is super absorbent is here: Stayfree Ultra Thin Overnight Pads with Wings

Dermoplast

Another postpartum recovery essential is Dermoplast.

Dermaoplast is a miracle spray that you spray “down there” and it brings instant relief and numbing to your pain.

If you have stitched because you tore or if it hurts to sit then this spray reaallyyy comes in handy. The hospital gave it to me in my postpartum recovery basket that they put by my bedside and when I used life-changing. I used it every time I used the bathroom and it brought me SO much relief.

You can find Dermoplast here!

Peri bottle

Staying on the topic of bathroom postpartum essentials, a peri bottle definitely goes on that list! Since you are sore and swollen down there it can be painful to use the bathroom, let alone wipe.

The nurses discouraged me from actually wiping, instead they advised me to just use a peri bottle to spray warm water to clean myself.

This peri bottle was amazing! The warm water is so soothing and it does a great job at replacing the need to wipe agitate your sore region.

You can purchase a peri bottle by clicking here: Perineal Lavette Irrigation Bottle (3 Pack)

Pain Reliever

Now, I know some people do not take medication or pain but for me, pain medication was a postpartum recovery essential.

It necessarily doesn’t help you recover quickly, but it makes your recovery period more tolerable.

Before I was discharged from the hospital my doctor actually prescribed me a mild painkiller so if pain medication is something you feel you will need then maybe sure to ask your doctor.

But buying a regular over-the-counter pain medication is totally fine as well.

And please DO NOT feel guilty or ashamed because you feel you need some sort of pain relief. Stitches in your tender area are exactly how it sounds: a little painful and uncomfortable. My doctor recommended I alternatie between Tylenol (acetaminophen) and Advil (ibuprofen) every 6-8 hours for the first week home.

Remember to please and always ask your doctor before taking any medication!

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Mama bottom balm

Because your region “down there” feels like you got into an epic fight and lost, you’re going to want to apply some relief balm to help heal your perineal.

This balm really helped me and gave me the must-need relief I needed.

I couldn’t apply it right away because it still hurt to touch down there but after a week or so the balm was smooth and light enough for me to begin to apply it. It’s also organic and made from natural herbs and essential oils so you don’t feel like you are putting any chemicals down there!

This is the balm I purchased: Earth Mama Organic Perineal Balm

Hemorrhoid Cream

This postpartum recovery essential is for one of the worst things that I have experienced: hemorrhoids.

Oh, how I hate that H word!

I experienced hemorrhoids from the middle of my pregnancy all the way through my postpartum recovery. And let me tell you, it was not fun! If hemorrhoids are something that you didn’t go through during pregnancy or after having your baby then you are without a doubt beyond blessed and I am extremely jealous!

One of the things that gave me great relief from hemorrhoids is the actual cream made for hemorrhoids. You apply it straight on the area that is inflamed or that is in pain or uncomfortable and you’ll feel immediate relief.

You can also use the Earth Mama Perineal Balm that I mentioned above. You can apply this balm as many times as you like and it is super easy to use. It’s also 100% organic and not harmful to you at all!

The cream I purchased: Preparation H Maximum Strength Cream

Tucks Pads

Like I mentioned, having the dreaded H word is absolutely the worst (yes, I’m still talking about hemorrhoids)! 

In fact, they are so uncomfortable that I even added 2 MORE things to this postpartum recovery essentials list to make your situation less horrifying and help you feel relief.

Tucks pads are absolutely amazing because they are specially designed to bring cool relief to your tender bottom.

Stool Softener

Another postpartum recovery essential to help you combat and even prevent hemorrhoids is a stool softener.

There is nothing worse than feeling splitting pain down there and then realizing that you have to “go to the bathroom”. I’ve heard of some women even stopping themselves from going to the bathroom because they did not want to aggravate or worsen their hemorrhoids.

The good news is that to prevent hemorrhoids from returning or happening, the KEY is soft stools. Yes, I know this is totally gross to talk about but it’s also very real and useful information.

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Start taking stool softener BEFORE labor and chances are when you have to use the bathroom after delivery is won’t be as bad because your stool will be soft and your boy does not have to push when you go to the bathroom.

You’ve already done enough strenuous pushing and you don’t want to have to push more out of your body!

Continue to take a stool softener until you feel comfortable, your body is regulated and your hemorrhoids have subsided. I still take it sometimes because it’s always better to be safer than sorry!

Colace is the best stool softener I found and I have tried A LOT of different ones, trust me. I have experimented more than enough so you don’t have to!

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Around the House Postpartum Essentials

Hemorrhoid & Postpartum Pillow

Okay, this is my last postpartum recovery essential regarding hemorrhoids, but trust me- you’re going to want to get ALL of the tips you can!

An absolute lifesaver for me was a donut pillow. Hemorrhoids are seriously not fun to sit on and if you are still recovering from your labor and delivery odds are most of your regular positions are going to be sitting or lying down.

You don’t want to aggravate or irritate your bottom so sitting on a donut pillow will allow you to sit in a comfortable position while having your bottom remain untouched. It’s a brilliant invention!

I purchased this pillow and it truly was a purchase I would make over and over again!

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Comfortable Underwear

Another important postpartum recovery essential is comfortable underwear. When you’re in the hospital they will give you these mesh underwear that is sort of “boy short” style. I thought that I would absolutely hate them but the mesh underwear was actually comfortable and was really useful.

When you leave the hospital, you can ask for a couple of more so you can take them home with you if you like.

But you want to make sure that you have comfortable underwear. You don’t want to automatically start wearing your pretty, lacy undergarments because the truth is you might dirty them and they might be really uncomfortable at first.

Because you’re going to be bleeding and still achy down there, you want to make sure to have comfortable, cotton underwear that even is a size larger than you normally wear.

These are the underwear that I purchased and they lasted me through my postpartum time: Essentials 100% Cotton Bikini Panty (6 pack)

Heating Pad Postpartum Recovery Essential

 

Heating pads (icy hot)

It’s no secret that you’re going to be sore! Your back, your abdomen, your bottom- everything. So, it’s really great to have a heating pad on hand. When your uterus is shrinking back to its normal size it also contracts and can feel like intense period cramps. A heating pad can help with these pains as your body is adjusting.

I also purchased Icy Hot patches that stick to your body and give you a tingly and cooling sensation. These really helped me when my lower back would hurt because I would put a patch on and just forget that it was there and it would really help my muscles!

You can find those icy hot patches here: Icy Hot Lidocaine Patch

You can purchase a really good, inexpensive heating pad here: Sunbeam Electric Heating Pad with 3 heat settings

Nipple cream

If you are breastfeeding, then you are going to definitely need some nipple relief cream. Your nipples can start to get red and cracked and even start to really hurt so to prevent this from happening to you it’s best to start using a nipple cream right away.

You don’t want your baby’s feeding time to be miserable for you because your nipples are in agony!

I used this organic nipple butter. It’s made with 100% organic beeswax and does not need to be wiped off before nursing! It’s called: Mama Earth Organic Nipple Butter

Nipple pads

Another important postpartum receiver essential regarding breastfeeding is nipple pads. If you are breastfeeding then you will begin to notice that you can start to “leak” breastmilk at any time, even when you are sleeping.

Even if you are NOT breastfeeding, your breastmilk will still come in and you will feel your breasts start to get firm and “full”.

You will also start to experience your breasts leaking because your milk is still there. It’s best to wear nipple pads or nursing pads so your milk doesn’t get all over your shirts.

At first, I didn’t know I even needed nipple pads until one morning I woke up and my pajama shirt was soaked with 2 huge wet circles. After that, I started wearing nursing pads all day and even at night.

You can purchase nursing pads here: Lansinoh Stay Dry Nursing Pads

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Probiotics

Probiotics is another great postpartum recovery essential because it will help you stay regular and keep your body’s digestive system healthy and support your daily immune system health.

Probiotics will also combat any antibiotics that you were taking if you needed antibiotics while you were in labor and delivery. Sometimes you can have a fever in labor and delivery and they will give you antibiotics to prevent the baby from getting an infection.

If you had antibiotics during labor it can affect your body for weeks afterward so I always like to have probiotics handy, especially when I was recovering.

The best probiotics I’ve ever taken was Garden of Life RAW Probiotics Ultimate Care. These probiotics are 100% GMO-Free and made with real foods that are clean, organic, and traceable.

Belly Lotion

I absolutely love to feel moisturized and I was so worried about the stretch marks on my body. So, a part of my postpartum recovery essentials was a special mama belly lotion to help hydrate the skin and ease stretch marks.

The more hydrated and moisturized you keep your skin, the better it will heal and prevent permanent stretch marks.

I started using this lotion when I was 6 months pregnant and it significantly reduced my skin from stretching! Then I used it 3 times a day for about 2 months after my delivery and I started seeing my stretch marks fade!

Even though it’s a “belly lotion” you should use it on your arms, breasts, thighs, and legs- basically anywhere that you want your skin to look better!

As with everything else that I’ve been recommending to you, this Mama Lotion is 100% organic and has organic herbs and essential oils in it to calm your stretch skin and encourage your skin’s natural elasticity.

You can find the belly lotion here: Earth Mama Belly Butter

Sitz Bath

A sitz bath is a mini bath for your bottom and region “down there”. It’s absolutely amazing and one of the best inventions, in my opinion!

Sometimes when you need immediate relief down there and you don’t want to apply creams or sprays, the best option is a sitz bath. Sitz baths are great for vaginal soreness, tears, episiotomy, perineal bruising, and hemorrhoids. If you suffering it prenatal hemorrhoids you can use this too!

You simply purchase a sitz bath bowl that goes over your toilet. You fill it with warm water and add comforting elements to it like essential oils and herbs for pain relief and to soothe you.

I used to purchase herbal sitz bath’s, which came in little pouches and looked like a tea bag that you steep in the warm water and fills the water with soothing essential oils and herbs. It worked WONDERS!

I purchased this: Earth Mama Organic Herbal Sitz Bath (6 count)

Epsom Salt

Epsom salt is really good for your muscles when you are feeling sore. It also really helps with the swelling reduction! When my doctor cleared me to be able to take baths I used to take an Epsom salt bath once a day for about 2 weeks.

It would reduce my swelling (from water retention) and make my achy body feel rejuvenated. You can even add some drops of essential oil to your bath for ultimate soothing and stress relief. You can even buy Epsom salt with lavender to help you sleep better!

You can buy some of the best Epsom salt here. It’s called Dr. Teals Epsom Salt Soaking Solution in Eucalyptus and Lavender 

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Gigantic water bottle

Water is SO important during the postpartum recovery period. If you’re breastfeeding, you’re going to need to be drinking a tooonnn of water and even if you aren’t breastfeeding, your body needs a lot of water to stay hydrated and healthy.

It’s a good idea to buy a pretty water bottle that you are going to use daily that would make you want to drink water. It can also be your gauge as to how much you are drinking.

I purchased this water bottle and I knew that I needed to drink 3 of these every day to meet my water quota. It has an infusion part so you can add fruit to add some flavor to the water too!

Recovery Journal

This recovery essential is optional but it really helped me in my recovery journal. Having a recovery journal can help you keep track of how you are feeling daily and see the progress of your health.

It doesn’t have to be a full-length diary, but even simple notes that you’ve jotted down about how you felt that day.

And if you ever are experiencing something out of the ordinary, be sure to write it down so when you visit your doctor you can have a clear track of information about how you have been feeling. I find that most of the time my doctor will ask me a specific question about my health and I would draw a complete blank!

But having a journal helps me not feel so much pressure to have to remember everything.

This is a really great postpartum wellness journal!

Postpartum Recovery | Rest

Rest

You cannot BUY this postpartum recovery essential.

It’s simply to rest, rest, rest.

Do NOT try to overdo it and overwork yourself. Make sure you are following your doctor’s orders and instructions. When you are feeling tired, lay down. When you are feeling light-headed, sit down. When you are aching and swollen, take a bath.

When your region “down there” is in pain, take a sitz bath. I know there are a million little things to do when you have a newborn but you have to remember to take care of yourself!

Ask for help when you need it and remember that you are your baby’s caregiver and need to be healthy in order to keep your baby healthy!

And that’s all for my postpartum recovery essentials list! All of these items are impossible to remember, especially when you are pregnant and about to give birth or home after delivery and are taking care of a newborn.

I wanted to make it super easy for you to remember these items so I created an Ultimate Postpartum Recovery Essentials Checklist for you to download or print!

Postpartum Recovery Essentials Checklist

Ultimate Postpartum Essentials Checklist

The checklist includes everything in this post PLUS some extra items to add further comfort for you!

Don’t feel like you need to remember all of these items, instead, download the list so you know for a fact that you are getting all of the items you need for a quick and easy recovery!

Well, there you have it! To help you heal as fast as possible, I wanted to share with you the ultimate list of essentials for fast and pain-free postpartum recovery! I hope I was able to bring you comfort and relief knowing that you don’t have to suffer through postpartum without any help!

Always With Love, Brianna
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Please know that I am not a doctor or physician and I am not medically trained. All tips and advice given is based on my own experience and given to me by my own doctor. If you have any questions or concerns, please contact your doctor. This post is solely to offer encouragement from my experience and not designed to offer medical advice or treatment.

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