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Why the Supermom Shuffle Box is Perfect for Busy Moms

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Supermom shuffle box

Inside: Looking for an easy way to add some self-care to your busy mom life? Check out the Supermom Shuffle Box!

I raced to the Target checkout line, looking down at the mountain of stuff in my cart and something hit me…

There is absolutely nothing in this cart for me.

I honestly didn’t even go down any aisle for myself because I was so fixated on searching the sale racks I stumbled upon in the toddler & baby sections.

And this is totally normal for me!

As moms, our whole life is dedicated to our little ones, and sometimes, we can forget about ourselves…

But I learned that focusing on YOU actually helps your family!

When you have time to focus on yourself, you are “filling your cup”. And when your cup is full you’re able to pour into your family from a place of joy, and not from a place of exhaustion.

I rarely go out of my way in a store to buy something for myself so the idea of a self-care mom subscription box is literally a dream come true.

If you’re looking to find an easy, affordable way to “fill your cup”, the Supermom Shuffle Box is perfect for you!

What is the Supermom Shuffle Box?

The Supermom Shuffle Box is a special, one of a kind, subscription box for moms that need simple solutions to navigate your busy life.

It’s a monthly dose of guidance and support to help you unleash your mommy superpowers!

Every month it’s filled with self-care items designed specifically for moms in mind, AND tried and true solutions that will help you with your every mom life.

A Glimpse Inside My Supermom Shufflebox!

The box contents comes in really cute packaging and I absolutely loved the box!

The Supermom Shuffle Box is jam-packed with goodies that I still use everyday since opening it. I love how many items were in the box and the variety of items!

The Supermom Sanity Saver Notebook was one of my favorite items!

I appreciate the Shufflebox is filled with things not only to make me feel special and focus on my self-care but also to help make my mom life easier.

And this little binder does exactly what it’s called- saves my sanity!

It has little tabs to help you stay organized and includes tips, tricks, guides, and template planners for Family Care, Organization, Date Nights, & Self-Care.

I’m a “planner mom” so I love having an organized, tangible place to track my home management.

What are Supermom Shuffle Box Subscription Options?

What I LOVE most about the Supermom Shuffle Box are the different options to meet your specific needs so you can stay within your budget.

Because let’s face it, parenthood is expensive!

But your self-care doesn’t have to be 🙂

You get to choose between 3 subscription plans:

  1. An E-Box: the most budget-friendly option includes a Supermom Sanity Saver Notebook each month, along with a cookbook, organizational checklists.
  2. Supermom Shufflebox Lite: a smaller version of the main shufflebox that includes the Supermom Sanity Saver Notebook and Cookbook, along with YOUR CHOICE of a product. I love this option because there have been many times that I signed up for subscription boxes and I never used half of the products in it.
  3. The Supermom Shufflebox: Includes 4-6 retail items plus a cookbook, monthly notebook inserts, AND online training & sessions

Who created this awesome subscription box for moms?

Sarah, the Founder of Supermom Shuffle, is the amazing mama behind this brilliant box!

Supermom Shuffle is a blog dedicated to helping moms unleash their Mommy Superpowers with tips and tricks for everyday mom life.

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January 20, 2021 · Leave a Comment

How to Help Your Toddler Adjust to a New Baby

Toddler Routines

Inside: Find out the easiest tips to help your toddler adjust to new baby by making them feel included, loved, important, and well prepared so you can make the transition easy!

As I stared down at the 2 little pink lines I was immediately excited but my mind began to race…

How can I juggle 2 kids?

Will I be able to divide my love?

How is my daughter going to handle being a big sister?

My excitement morphed into worry because the relationship I have with my daughter is so special that I didn’t know how she would react to the news that I’m pregnant with another baby.

Fast forward 9 months…

And everything turned out great! Actually, better than I could have ever imagined!

I’ll share my exact tips and tricks to help your toddler adjust to your new baby so you can eliminate jealousy and promote a healthy bonding between your newly grown family.

After you implement these tips, your toddler and baby are on the road to truly becoming best friends 🙂

I’ll walk you through exactly the best steps you can take to help your toddler feel included, loved, and fall in love with your new little one!

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These tips will cover what you can do to start preparing your toddler for your new baby starting when you first find out you’re pregnant all the way until you finally bring your sweet little one home.

I’ll help you help your toddler feel helpful and useful instead of unnoticed or overlooked.

Let’s get down to it!

Tips to Help your Toddler Adjust to New Baby

The best way to help your toddler adjust to new baby is to actually begin when you find out you’re pregnant.

These tips will help keep your toddler in the loop as your belly grows and help them feel included while you prepare for your new little one.

If you’re already past this part and your baby is here, you can just skip down to the next section of tips!

How to Prepare Toddler for Baby While You’re Still Pregnant

Tell your toddler the news first

The best tip to help your toddler adjust and prepare for a new baby is to actually tell your toddler you’re pregnant before you tell everyone else.

Your toddler is an important member of your little family so discuss with your husband when is the best time to share the big news with your toddler.

You don’t have to tell your toddler right away, just be sure to tell them before you tell everyone else. Even if it’s just a day before.

You don’t want your toddler to be blindsided in front of your whole family with the news. Especially since you don’t exactly know how your toddler will react.

Maybe they need extra cuddles, maybe they’ll need a better explanation.

And giving them this one on one time will start the whole journey in the best way possible!

14 Best Tips to Help Toddler Prepare for Baby

Have your toddler help with your pregnancy announcement/gender reveal

Now that your toddler knows your big news, let them help you announce it to your family and friends!

Here are some pregnancy announcement ideas with toddler:

  • Toddler holds a balloon that says baby
  • Have toddler hold a letter board that says promoted to “big sister” or “big brother”
  • Take a family maternity photo

Pregnancy gender reveal ideas:

  • Have toddler bite into a pink or blue cupcake
  • Toddler can hold a pink or blue balloon
  • Toddler can open a box with something pink or blue inside

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Show your toddler books about the baby growing

Another really great tip to help your toddler adjust to new baby is to show him/her how the baby is growing in your belly.

You can use a pregnancy book like this one and walk them through how your baby grows every well.

You can also download an app like Baby Center and your toddler can see pictures and videos of your baby growing.

My daughter absolutely LOVED watching videos of the baby growing every week and every month.

We’d talk about how her sisters finger nails were growing or how she looks inside of the belly when she kicks.

You can use this opportunity also as a way to teach how the body forms and grows and go over parts of the body!

Let them help you pick items for your registry

The next step is to get ready for the new baby and your toddler will looveeee this part.

Plan a day to go to your registry store of choice such as Target or Buy Buy Baby.

Have a special breakfast that morning, visit the store, and let your toddler look at all the items you need. Let her/him pick out crib sheets, patterned burp cloths, a cute onesie, and anything else that you allow them to decide.

This will help your toddler feel connected with your baby when they see the baby using the item they picked out!

Show them the bottles, the baby’s crib, and other baby items.

Tell them what each item does for the baby too!

And if the store has a registry machine, let your toddler scan the items- they’ll have so much fun 🙂

If you’re setting up an online registry like Amazon Baby (which is my favorite option!) you can still make it fun by having your toddler help you scroll through items!

Include Toddler in your Baby Shower

Once your registry is all set up, next, it’s time for the baby shower…yay!

It may be difficult to watch your toddler when you’re waddling around at a party dedicated to you so don’t worry about having your toddler be there the whole time.

Maybe your husband can watch your toddler for most of the shower and your toddler can come help you open gifts or take pictures.

My cousin gave my daughter a gift at my baby shower and it was a sash that said “Super Big Sister” and she wore it the whole time!

Buy toddler baby doll

The last tip to help your toddler adjust to new baby while you’re still pregnant is to let your toddler chose a baby doll of their choice that can become “their baby”.

This can be a pretty baby doll or even a spider man plush!

It doesn’t matter what kind of “doll” it is, as long as your child:

  1. Picked it out themselves
  2. Learns to care for it

This will come in handy when you need to feed or change your new baby so your toddler can stay involved by taking care of theirs!

Tips to help toddler adjust to new baby when baby comes home

The beauty of having a toddler is they are just a bit old enough to understand more than your baby does. So these tips will help you include your toddler in caring for your baby in simple ways that will have a great impact.

toddler & baby doll

Involve your toddler in everyday baby tasks

Infants need constant care and attention which means that it’s really easy for you to feel torn between your toddler and your newbon.

But it including your toddler in those daily, repetive baby tasks can help you easily juggle both your new baby and your toddler.

I’ll show you 2 easy tips here:

Ask toddler to help with diaper changes

I started off by including my daughter in routines that we would be doing over and over again each day, like diaper changes.

I set up a little toddler chair next to the changing table and would give L different tasks. Such as:

Please give mommy the diaper

Can you open the diaper cream cap?

Please throw the diaper in the trash

Then after a few weeks your toddler will be so used to your diaper changing routine that they will feel needed and helpful instead of feeling jealous or even ignored.

Let toddler help you wash bottles/laundry

If your toddler is old enough to stand on a step stool and help you do some basic chores, this is a great way to help your toddler feel included and adjust to your new baby.

When you have to wash bottles, have your toddler stand on a step stool by the sink and help you rinse or dry the bottles.

When you do your baby’s laundry, ask your toddler to unsnap onesies buttons or throw each piece of clothing int eh washing machine.

Making these everyday tasks into a little game can help your toddler feel even more included and allows them to feel they are helping.

Implement a reward system

If your toddler begins to help you with diaper changes or bottle washing or laundry, begin to start a reward system so your toddler feels like they are working towards something by helping you and the baby.

For every time your toddler helps with a diaper change, give them a sticker. After 20 stickers (or an amount you decide), your toddler can choose one gift out of a special treasure box.

You can fill the treasure box with little items from the Dollar Store or Target dollar spot. Maybe a coloring book or a little surprise egg with their favorite character.

Rewarding your toddler for helping you with the baby will keep them encouraged!

Explain to your toddler what you are doing and why

Toddlers are like sponges. They retain information and process things differently than we do so it’s important to keep them in the loop so they understand what is going on around them.

As you change the baby’s diaper, explain to your toddler how babies go peepee in the diaper and then when they become big girls or big boys, they go peepee in the potty.

As your breastfeeding, explain to your toddler that mommy makes special milk that makes the baby strong and healthy.

As your bottle feeding, explain how feeing the baby sitting in an upright position helps make the baby’s belly less bubbly and gassy.

Use words your toddler will understand but teaching and explaining to them key actions that you do throughout the day will help your toddler feel included!

Have a positive discipline strategy in place

Let’s face it- toddlers can be a handful…and sometimes they can be downright bad.

  • Refusng to listen
  • Throwing tantrums
  • Running away from you
  • Making messes
  • The list can go on and on.

And if you’re juggling a newborn PLUS a toddler having a bad day, things can get hairy really fast.

The best thing to do is to have a positive discipline routine in place.

Go over the discipline routine with your toddler so they know what to expect when they do not listen to you.

Explain to your toddler how important it is to listen and how they can help you with the baby by putting on their listening ears.

If you’re looking for a positive disciple strategy that actually WORKS, downloadguide this article for my step by step discipline routine.

This is the exact routine I use with my daughter, starting when she was 2 years old!

I created the Positive Discipline Strategy guide with simple steps so you can slowly implement the discipline routine at your own pace and in a way that your toddler will respond well to it.

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Have a special snack/treat/show ready just for when you have baby around

There will be many times when you’re caring for the baby that your toddler can’t really help you much.

To be honest, there will be some times where their help will just make the situation harder for you.

And that’s okay!

To keep your toddler calm and not feeling ignored, choose a special treat or snack that they can have during these times.

It doesn’t have to be every day, but your toddler will feel more special by playing with a special toy or eating a special treat instead of potentially feeling unseen.

You can even have a special movie or show that your toddler loves that they can watch just when you’re with the baby.

Use whatever works for your family!


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Plan quality time with toddler

I noticed that toddler’s love language is quality time. Special time with mommy and daddy is like pure gold to any little one.

I know when my daughter starts saying “Mommy, mommy, mommy, mommy” 50 times a day, she’s really craving time with me.

Toddlers just want your attention and when you have a new baby around, that can seem almost impossible.

But quality time doesn’t have to be a 2 hour movie…

  • Sit on the couch and cuddle for 5 minutes.
  • Play with your toddler and their favorite toy.
  • Ask them what they would like to do for 20 minutes and they get to choose the activity.

Anything that give you and your toddler time together where they are your only attention, is great quality time.

So don’t beat yourself up and feel guilty for not giving 100% of your attention to your toddler 100% of the time.

Just plan little pockets of quality time with your toddler throughout the day and you’ll notice any tantrums start to disappear 🙂

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Well there you have it!

I hope this extensive list of tips to help your toddler adjust to a new baby will help you feel confident knowing that you can successfully juggle and newborn and a toddler AND not spread yourself too thin!

Don’t feel guilty for having to split your time between your 2 little ones. They are both getting 100% of your love and care, even if it a looks a little different than it used to.

Remember, the goal is to help your toddler feel loved, appreciated, and important by actively including them in your daily routine with your baby.

Don’t worry, it’ll come like second nature to you <3

You got this mama!

Always With Love, Brianna

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January 17, 2021 · Leave a Comment

14 Easy Newborn Baby Tips to Make Mom Life Easy

Baby Routines

Inside: Find out the ultimate easy newborn baby tips and tricks to help you not just survive but thrive the first month home with your baby!

Honesty time– life with a newborn can you leave you whiplashed missing your old life.

Why? Because the newborn phase is HARD.

The nights are long, the feedings are endless, the sleep deprivation is R.E.A.L.

But there’s nothing greater than snuggling up with your newborn and feeling her small chest breathe in and out on yours.

It makes it all worth it.

But how can you make those first weeks with your newborn not only survivable but easy??

I’ll share with you the 14 best easy newborn baby tips and tricks to help you survive and thrive the first month at home with your baby so you feel confident and in control- NOT panicked and overwhelmed!

With these tips, you’ll streamline right through “the difficult newborn stage” so you can just enjoy the cuddles.

Let’s get down to it!

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14 Easy Newborn Baby Tips & Tricks to Master the First Month With Your Baby

These tips truly saved my sanity the first month at home with each of my girls. I’ve learned A LOT from trial and error (and huge diaper explosions!) so be sure to follow these tips to avoid my downfalls 🙂

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Organizational Easy Newborn Tips

1. Make a Diaper Caddy/Basket

There’s nothing worse than your baby’s bare bottom being out and your digging your hand under the changing table trying to find a diaper only to pull out a pair of pants.

#nothelpful

Having a dedicated diaper basket truly streamlined our diaper changing routine.

Inside of our diaper caddy is:
  • Diapers
  • Diaper cream (this one is the BEST and my daughters never experienced a rash)
  • Wipes
  • Scented diaper sacks for dirty diapers
  • Nail clippers
  • Nose frida
  • Burp cloths
  • Extra change of clothes
  • Pacifier

(We sometimes take this caddie from room to room in the house so having these extra items helps me not have to run around like a chicken with no head in the middle of a poop explosion emergency)

2. Organize Clothes Near Changing Table

One of the best easy newborn tips to have your baby’s clothes organized in an easily accessible way. This means if you have to blindly reach in the drawer or cabinet in the middle of the night for something, you know exactly where it is.

Organize your baby’s clothes by category and then by size.

I have a pile of:

  • short sleeve onesies
  • long sleeve onesies
  • footies
  • pants

Then I have a bakset for each of the following:

  • bibs/burp cloths
  • swaddles
  • extra sheets
  • socks/hats

3. Nursing Basket and Pumping Station/Caddy

If you’re nursing or pumping (or both!) it’s important to stay organized too. Not only for your own sanity but to help make feedings go as smooth as possible.

You can set up a basket that you take around the house with you so whenever you nurse/pump you always have everything you need at your fingertips.

Inside my nursing basket:
  • Burp cloths
  • Nipple cream
  • Water bottle
  • Travel pillow
  • In my Pumping Basket:
  • Nipple cream
  • Pump parts
  • Breast pads
  • Wipes
  • Pumping bra

4. Cut tags on New clothes

No one likes a tag scratching down on the back of your neck! Same for babies, we want to make them as comfortable as possible. Little things like itchy tags and uncomfortable clothing can really irritate a baby and make them super fussy.

When you receive a new item of baby clothing, wash it, cut the price tags, and then cut the inside tags on the seams.

Be sure to remove all of the little plastic things where the price tags were too!

5. Keep your Diaper bag ready

The next newborn tip is to have a plan of action for your diaper bag. I personally always have my diaper bag packed and ready so when it’s time to leave I’m not wasting precious time trying to stuff 10 diapers in there.

When we come home from an outing, I’ll clean out the bag and get it ready for the next time we’ll need to use it.

That way, it’s always ready and it’s one less thing you have to worry about when trying to run out of the house.

Of course, there are always a couple of things you need to add to it before you leave, like water or milk, but that’ll be easy to remember because everything else is already packed!

Read this post to learn all about how to pack the perfect lightweight diaper bag so you never forget anything but you’re also not carrying around the kitchen sink!

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6. Place a Pacifier in every room

If you’re baby takes a pacifier, this newborn tip will save your sanity.

All you have to do is put a pacifier in every room of the house where you know you will be with your baby at some point in the day.

My baby uses the Soothie pacifier (which are super inexpensive!)

So in the living room, we have a green pacifier, in my bedroom is a purple one, and in her room is a pink one.

We leave each pacifier in the room they belong instead of taking it with us to the next room in the house when we walk around with her.

Also make sure to have one in your car seat and diaper bag!

We use the pacifier clips and clip one in the car seat and one in the pocket of her diaper bag.

I also make sure to have a burp cloth in every room of the house as well. Sometimes I even walk around the house with the burp cloth/receiving blanket on my shoulder for quick & easy spit up clean up.

I use these burp cloths and they are absolutely a lifesaver! They are just big enough to drape over my shoulder but small enough not to feel like you’re holding a blanket around.

7. Track your baby’s day

I love this newborn tip because it’s super simple but crazy effective.

All you have to do is track your little one’s activities throughout the day. Write down their naps, feedings and awake times.

This will help you not only track your baby’s growth but it will also help you see their overall routine, which can help you anticipate their needs!

Baby’s automatically fall into a routine- when they eat, sleep, and are awake.

Tracking your baby’s day will help you see this pattern and by following your baby’s natural routine, you can get to know their cues.

That means when your baby cries, you’ll immediately know if it’s hunger, overtiredness, general fussiness, or even a diaper change.

Tracking your baby’s day helps you get to know your baby better!

I created a FREE Baby Schedule Collection to help you easily track your baby’s day without headache. You can instantly download the Baby Schedule Collection which includes a Baby Tracker, Daily Schedule, and Weekly Feeding Tracker.

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8. Clean bottles after use

I know this newborn baby tip can seem a little overwhelming but hear me out…

If you clean your baby’s bottle after every use then when it’s time for your little one to eat, you’ll never have to worry about your kitchen sink overflowing with dirty bottles and stuck washing them while your baby is screaming for more milk.

(Trust me, I speak out of very unfortunate experiences here…)

So just do future self a favor and clean the bottle after each use (if you can!). You’ll thank yourself later.

Easy Newborn Baby Tips for Better Sleep

9. Utilize the Swaddle

The swaddle was my gift from heaven-seriously. My first daughter loved the swaddle. My second fought it a bit but really fell in love with it after a few days.

I swaddled my baby for every nap where she slept in her crib and after every nighttime feeding for bedtime sleep.

It’s best to use an actual swaddle with Velcro or a zipper and not just the swaddle blankets because your baby’s hand can easily escape those.

I love the Swaddle Me swaddles. They are affordable, the velcro lasts for a long time, and they are comfortable for little ones

10. Use a Sound machine

Ever wondered what you can do to help your baby sleep better?

2 words- sound machine.

Having a sound machine was literally one of the best things I did to improve my baby’s sleep. And not just nighttime sleep- naps too!

All you have to do is put on a sound machine in the room your baby is sleeping and this will help your little one fall asleep.

Did you know it sounds like a mini vacuum cleaner inside of the womb?

Your baby is used to a melodic sound like this and it lulls them right to sleep!

I have used 2 different sound machines:

  • a simple one that had 8 different sounds,
  • and the Hatch that is a sound machine & night light combo (put this one on my Amazon registry after researching it and after receiving it, I love it!)

Both have worked effectively so go according to your budget!

Easy Newborn Baby Tips for Baby’s Comfort

11. Pull onesie down instead of over head

Every wonder what those little flaps on the top of your baby’s onesie if for? It’s so you can pull it down their body!

This is especially helpful when you have a diaper blow out and can’t lift the onesie over your baby’s head.

12. Put baby’s Towel in the dryer

Giving your baby a bath can be very nerve-wracking, for you and for baby! Your baby doesn’t quite understand the concept of a bath yet so it’s best to make sure they feel as comfortable as possible!

This newborn tip is easy- simply throw your baby’s towel in the dryer while your baby is in the bath so when you’re done, the towel is nice and warm for your baby’s cold skin.

13. Flip out the Diaper ruffles

There’s nothing worse than hearing your little one go “number 2” and then watch as the poopy climbs up their back and down their leg. Talk about throwing their clothes into an incinerator.

If you want to avoid stinky diaper blow out, this newborn tip is awesome!

After ever diaper change, make sure to flip out the little ruffles that are around their leg.

This will help keep whatever’s in their diaper actually IN their diaper.

14. Use Diaper Cream in baby’s rolls to prevent chaffing

Baby’s are soooo cute and fat but those rolls can sometimes be a little problematic. If not cared for properly, they can begin to chaff (and get smelly too).

I use this CeraVe Healing Ointment for Babies in all of my daughter’s rolls, cracks, and crevices and it REALLY helps her stay cool and comfortable.

I also use this cream after every diaper change and none of my babies have ever had any diaper rash. It’s seriously the best diaper cream.

I swear this stuff is a miracle! I even use it when I’m itchy or irritated.

Easy Baby Activities

One of the questions I hear the most is…

“What do I do with my baby all day?”

Trust me, I hear ya! Sometimes it seems like all your baby does is eat, sleep, and run through diapers faster than a coyote.

But keeping your baby stimulated during his/her awake time is great for better naps and overall better sleep.

If you’re wondering what activities you can actually do with your newborn, be sure to check out my Tiny One’s Boredom Buster Activity Toolkit!

This activity toolkit is jampacked with over 30 activities for newborn babies all the way to toddlers. So as your baby grows, you’ll already have all the activities you need to keep your little one stimulated and reaching new milestones.

Each activity in the guide is fun, low prep, and affordable- designed to help promote milestone development, promote parent/child bonding, and even help your baby to learn how to play independently.

The Activity Toolkit also comes with a step by step guide showing you how to create an easy activity play routine for your baby plus 15 different resources and templates to help you plan a week of activities in under 5 minutes.

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Well there you have it!

I hope you enjoyed all of these easy newborn tips to help make those newborn days easier and simplify mom life.

Do you have any easy newborn tips that make your life easier? Share them below in the comments!

Always With Love, Brianna

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January 6, 2021 · Leave a Comment

The Best 0-4 Weeks Old Newborn Routine

Baby Routines

Inside: Feeling overwhelmed by the newborn phase? Learn the best 0-4 weeks old newborn routine to help you learn your baby’s cues and make each day as easy as possible!

It was 1 o’clock in the morning…I was rocking and feeding my newborn for 6 hours straight. My eyes were swollen from crying, my chest was sore, and my head was pounding like a construction site.

It was 24 hours of what felt like a year.

Immediately the questions flooded my mind…

Am I spoiling her?

Am I creating bad habits for later?

Why is she always so fussy?

Are her days mixed up with her nights?

To say I was overwhelmed was a complete understatement.

I had no idea what I was doing because I felt lost. I was living my life from one 2 hour stretch of sleep to another- and it was killing me.

But then I found a golden nugget: a newborn routine that actually made sense!

Not a newborn routine that sounded impossible to do with a 1 week old….

…but a newborn routine that gave me a hint of structure to my day with my baby with cues that made me feel confident so I knew she was eating enough and her sleep patterns were totally normal.

And I want to share this 0-4 weeks old newborn routine with you!

This awesome 0-4 weeks old newborn routine will help you feel less…well, helpless- so you can feel more in control and less overwhelmed, especially in those beginning days where the whole world feels like it’s crashing down around you (hello hormones!).

Important: This newborn routine can be used for breastfed babies, formula fed babies, & combination feeding.

Be sure to download the FREE printable download of this newborn routine so you can easily save it and always have it with you!

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So let’s get down to it…

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0-4 Weeks Old Simple Newborn Routine to survive the first 4 weeks with your baby

The Best 0-4 Weeks Old Newborn Routine

I started this newborn routine when my daughter was a week old and it truly saved my sanity!

But first, what is a newborn routine and how do you start one?

What is a Newborn Routine?

A newborn routine is simply a series of actions you’ll take with your baby each day to help you begin a solid feeding & sleep foundation for the coming weeks.

A newborn routine is NOT a rigorous, harsh schedule.

In this 0-4 weeks old newborn routine, you are simply following your baby’s cues to come up with a pattern for your day so you can meet his/her needs accordingly.

For this newborn routine you will not be dictated by the clock for feedings and naps but simply following along with the clock to track when your baby is doing what.

For example, if your baby eats every 3 hours and your baby last ate at 12 but is still fast asleep at 3:30, you know it’s probably time for a feeding.

But if your baby ate at 12 and is now showing hunger cues at 2:30, you feed on demand- don’t make your baby wait those 30 minutes just because the clock hasn’t hit 3:00 yet.

It’s all about flexibility and following your baby’s cues while guiding him along the way.

With this newborn routine, you will be setting a solid foundation for when your baby is able to sleep through the night- with these simple routine tips, you’re setting up the stage for a great 8-12 week stretch of easy feedings and naps/nighttime sleep.

Hello long stretches of nighttime sleep, goodbye sleep deprivation!

But remember, the goal right now is NOT to get your baby to sleep through the night. Your goal is to set the foundation for feedings, awake time, and sleep.

By doing this newborn routine you’ll know when your baby needs to eat, be awake, and sleep.

You’re basically just getting to know your baby better. And there’s no one better to care for your baby than you, mama!

Remember, this routine isn’t about following the clock so if one day your baby is eating at 10:30am and the next day she’s eating at 11:15am—that’s okay!

You follow her cues based on her needs within this routine.

Newborn Routine: Feeding

Let’s begin with the feeding- which in my opinion is one of the hardest parts of having a newborn. Figuring out WHAT to feed your baby is going to be the first step.

Are you breastfeeding? Are you formula feeding? Are you bottle feeding? Are you pumping?

The list of feeding questions can go on and on.

But it’s important to not become overwhelmed with figuring all of this out.

Maybe you breastfed in the hospital but got home and realized it wasn’t a right fit for you and baby. Or maybe your baby is super fussy and you have to change your diet.

Or maybe you decided to formula feed but now have no idea what formula is best.

I personally have been through ALL of these scenarios…

  • I have quit breastfeeding because I couldn’t find out what was making my daughter colicky.
  • I have switched formulas 4 times because there was blood in my daughters stool.
  • I have switched bottles because of gas issues.
  • I have changed my diet during breastfeeding.
  • I’ve exclusively pumped because I needed my husband’s help during nighttime feedings and this gave us the ability for him to feed her too.

Let’s just say feeding issues had me STRESSED.

When your baby is eating well and eating the right thing for HER, life gets easier.

There’s nothing worse than a baby who is miserable, in pain, and gassy and they can’t explain to you what’s wrong. My heart literally breaks.

So first things first, feed your baby what is BEST FOR HIM.

If you’re struggling with breastfeeding or latching or diets, talk to a lactation consultant. Most pediatricians can point you in the direction of someone who can help you.

If you chose to formula feed, talk to your baby’s pediatrician for recommendations. Different formula has different ingredients, such as different iron contents.

If for any reason you feel the way you are feeding your baby is bothering her, talk to your doctor about it.

I’ve called my pediatrician at least 10 times on different occasions because my daughter was either constipated, had mucousy stools, couldn’t latch, was gassy, etc.

She pointed me in the direction of a different formula or gave me a clue as to what I should stop eating.

Starting to feel confident in what your baby is eating, how much they eat, and their hunger cues is a huge part in my newborn routine.

So don’t stress and take these 4 weeks to get to know your baby more and how he/she eats!


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Newborn Routine: Awake Time

In a normal baby schedule, after a feeding there’s usually a time where your baby is up. This is called awake time.

But with a newborn, their awake time or wake window is super short.

Their awake time or wake window is the time from when they wake from the last nap to the time where they go back to sleep.

And the main thing I noticed about newborn awake time is most of the wake window is taken up by feeding.

My daughter would wake up at 10:30 and eat for like 45 minutes to an hour- which is her whole wake window! By the time she was done eating and had a full feeding, it was time to go back to sleep.

(Remember, an overtired baby is a fussy, upset baby so no one wants that!)

Even up until 4-5 weeks my daughter was taking a WHILE to eat. After about 5 weeks her feedings started to get a bit shorter because she was more comfortable with the bottle/breast. We also took the time to burp her every ounce/every 5 minutes breastfeeding to reduce gas and it worked really well for her.

Everything about a newborn takes grace and patience!

So if you find that your baby is literally eating and sleeping all day long, that’s okay! His wake window is his feeding time.

Some babies eat really fast and will have a bunch of awake time before going back to sleep. This is completely normal too!

With this 0-4 weeks old newborn routine, you are simply following your baby’s hunger and sleep cues to help them feel the most comfortable while maintaining some predictability in their day.

Super simple 0-4 weeks old newborn routine to help you survive the first month with your new baby!

Newborn Routine: Naps

Let’s talk about naps in this 0-4 weeks old newborn routine. To be honest, baby sleep always gave me anxiety.

Will my baby only fall asleep in my arms?

What if my baby gets too attached to the pacifier?

Will my baby ever learn to self-soothe?

When will my baby sleep through the night?

All of these questions were super valid for a sleep deprived mom who just wanted another hour of sleep!

But newborn sleep is super sporadic- and that’s totally normal. Maybe one nap your baby sleeps 2 hours but then after the next feeding they literally only sleep for 25 minutes before waking up in a full-out scream.

Your goal is just to give your baby a nap when you see his/her sleep cue.

Sleepy Cues:

  • Rubbing eyes,
  • Yawning,
  • Blank staring,
  • Slow blinking, etc.

Maybe one nap is in a swing, the next nap is in a baby carrier, and the next nap is in a bassinet.

That’s perfectly normal!

As your baby gets older in weeks, you can try to lay down your baby for one nap in their bedtime spot (such as a crib or bassinet).

This will begin to help baby learn the difference between sleep locations. Usually, the first nap of the day is easiest to accomplish so you can try to put baby down in her bassinet for this nap if you want to try it out.

Newborn naps can truly take place anywhere- as long as they are sleeping at points in the day.


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What if my baby isn’t napping?

There were some days where my 3 week old daughter would be up for like 4-5 hours every evening. Hello witching hour!

During this time, no matter how many times I tried to put her to sleep, she would wake up screaming 10 minutes later. She would seem constantly hungry and completely boycott her naps.

I nursed her as much as I could when I was breastfeeding those weeks (when she was cluster feeding) and when she was on the bottle I fed her every 2.5 hours or would feed her a half ounce about every half hour.

It was brutal.

And even now that my daughter is older than 5 weeks, she still goes through a period every week where she refuses to sleep.

Babies are always growing and are in different developmental stages all the time. Through these growth spurts, your baby will react differently. So just go with the flow of your baby’s cues and try not to stress too much.

If he genuinely seems hungry, feed him. If she’s tired, offer a nap. If he wants to be cuddled, hold him. If she’ll only sleep in your arms, wear her.

You can’t spoil your baby.

You are the best form of comfort and relief for your baby!

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Tips for a Good Newborn nap in this 0-4 Weeks Old Newborn Routine:
  • For one nap a day, place baby in a quiet, dark area (bassinet/crib in a room)
  • Swaddle (I love this swaddle!)
  • Sound machine (We’ve used this Homedics sound machine for my first and the Hatch for my second)
  • Be sure baby had a full feeding & appropriate awake time

Newborn Routine: Bedtime Sleep

Last but not least on our easy newborn routine is bedtime sleep- which is different than a nap.

When your baby is first born they will take the same length of sleep all day, usually 2-3 hour stretches (but sometimes less).

As your baby gets older every week your goal is to complete full feedings (like we talked about above) so their tummy is full and they sleep comfortably- and eventually longer!

As I said, this newborn routine isn’t about getting your baby to sleep 8-hour stretches in their first month of life. It’s about laying the foundation of *good sleep patterns* so when they are developmentally ready, they can sleep longer.

During the nighttime, usually, the last feeding that I’m awake before heading to bed, I’ll do a mini bedtime routine.

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Here’s my newborn bedtime routine:

  • I’ll change my baby’s clothes,
  • give her a wipe down so she’s fresh,
  • keep the lights dim,
  • and sing her a song while feeding her
  • When it’s time for sleep, I swaddle her and put her in the bassinet/crib. (Laying the baby down in a stationary (safe) place for nighttime sleep will also indicate that it’s bedtime, not just a daytime nap.)

These little things are to signal that it’s nighttime sleep. So eventually as I do this for weeks and she gets older, she’ll be signaled that it’s nighttime sleep- which should be a longer stretch before feeding again.

I started doing this for bedtime sleep when she was 1 week old and by 5 weeks she was sleeping one 5-6 hour stretch during the night- VICTORY!

Don’t Stress- Your Newborn will Change

As your baby continues to grow and develop there will be some days where it looks like he regressed. Maybe your baby is super fussy and refuses to sleep unless in your arms. Or maybe your baby is doing longer stretches of sleep and then one day wakes every 45 minutes.

Newborns are constantly growing and developing so having a routine like this one can help you keep track of when they are going through growth spurts and how you can help them through it- all while being confident as a mama!

But as your newborn reaches a month old, you’ll have this routine that will grow with them, not that they will grow out of.

This is a flexible routine based on your babies cues and habits that form an overall structure for your day

And it all begins by tracking your baby’s activities: their feedings, naps, and awake time.

By tracking these things and starting this easy newborn routine you’ll begin to notice your baby’s individual cues for when they are ready for what they need next.

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Don’t forget to download my FREE newborn routine and real-life sample routines!

This routine is exactly what I personally used for my daughter and the real-life sample routine is her exact trackings each week. So you can see what I did and when!

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Recap Time for the 0-4 Weeks Old Newborn Routine!

With this 0-4 weeks old newborn routine, you are simply following your baby’s hunger and sleep cues to help them feel the most comfortable while maintaining some predictability in their day.

Remember, here’s the overall structure of the 0-4 weeks old newborn routine:

  • feeding (every 3-4 hours)
  • awake time (60-90 minutes)
  • nap (20 minutes to 2 hours in length)
  • bedtime sleep (swaddle in a cool dark room in bassinet/crib)

This newborn routine personally gave me a hint of structure to my day with my newborn that made me feel confident so I knew she was eating enough and her sleep patterns were totally normal.

By tracking these things and starting this easy newborn routine you’ll begin to notice your baby’s individual cues for when they are ready for what they need next.

Be sure to download my FREE Mommy & Me Planner where you can track your baby’s feedings, activities, and naps in ONE place. This is a planner + tracker combo perfectly designed to help mamas with their little one’s routine!

Download it below by clicking the download button!

What’s next?? Month 1-4!

Ready to learn how to survive and thrive in the first 4 months with your baby? Read the 1-4 Month Old Easy & Flexible Baby Routine to help you navigate months 1-4 with your little one 🙂

Always With Love, Brianna

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The Best 5 Baby & Toddler Summer Essentials

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Baby and Toddler Summer Essentials

Inside: Looking for safe baby and toddler summer essentials to keep your little one happy & healthy?? Keep reading for 5 of the best must-haves!

I was in big trouble…

It felt like it was a million degrees outside and the car AC wasn’t working. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw a park with gushing sprinklers and then it hit me—I didn’t have any sunscreen or water clothes for my daughter…

Praying that she didn’t see the park, I tried to speed up.

But she saw it. And then the tantrum started.

I couldn’t blame her- it was REALLY hot!

So, I let her run in through the sprinklers a couple of times, just long enough for her to get cooled off but short enough where she wouldn’t get sunburned.

And I was kicking myself the entire time!

How could I forget the basic summer essentials?!

From that day on, I now carry all the baby and toddler summer essentials with me so I’m always prepared.

If you’re looking for the best baby and toddler summer essentials and must-haves, you’ve come to the right place!

I’ll share with you all of my favorite summer products for kids PLUS my essentials checklist so you can always be prepared too. If you’re looking for the best, all-natural, baby-safe products to help you glide through the summer, I’m so glad you’re here!

Let’s get down to it!

The Best Baby & Toddler Summer Essentials

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1. Sunscreen

My little girl is extremely fair-skinned…like Elsa’s ice transparent.

Because her skin is so fair, she’s extremely sensitive to the sun.

So I had to really do my research and step up my sunscreen and sunblock game.

I not only needed something that was strong enough and water-resistant, but I also needed something that was as natural as possible without the sneaky chemicals that most sunscreens have these days.

After 2 long summers of figuring out which product is best, we finally found our golden ticket!

Here are my 2 favorite baby and toddler sunscreens:

  1. Blue Lizard Mineral Kids Sunscreen with No Chemical Additives
  2. Aveeno Baby Mineral Sunscreen for Sensitive Skin


2. Hat

The next baby and toddler summer essential is a good sun hat. I prefer the ones that are also water-resistant so Baby L can run through the sprinklers at the park.

But any brimmed hat will work!


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3. Bug Repellant

Bugs are not only a nuisance, but they can also be very dangerous. Especially if your child is allergic to mosquitos or bees.

That’s why bug repellent is a baby and toddler summer essential!

My daughter has an allergy to mosquito bites- I’m talking hives, fever, red knot, blisters and all. It breaks my heart to see her like that.

So, I use a special combination of 2 different products and it turned out to be a game-changer.

The first product is Johnson & Johnson Baby Oil Lotion. This stuff is seriously gold. You just slather it on your child and the bugs stay awaaaayyyy. You can also find it at Target (which is awesome for curbside pick up!)

Always look for the green bottle when shopping for it.

I also use a liquid organic bug repellant to spray on her clothes so it’s double the power.

4. Bathing suit

Never underestimate a good bathing suit! I’m always inclined to purchase a cheaper bathing suit because let’s face it, not everyone can afford a $50 baby bathing suit that your child is going to grow out of in 2.5 seconds.

But I’ve learned the hard way that not all bathing suits are created equal. A $5 swimsuit just doesn’t fit and protect as well as one of a higher quality.

The great news is, you don’t have to choose between quality and affordability- you can have both!

I’ve found some really great bathing suits that are not only great on toddler wear and tear but also really affordable.

These are my favorite:

  • Baby One Piece Rash Guard Suit
  • Carter’s Two-Piece Rash Guard Set
  • Toddler One Piece Swimsuit

5. Sunglasses

If your little one is old enough to keep sunglasses on, then this is a summer must-have to keep in your bag.

I found that Baby L won’t wear her hat but she’ll wear her sunglasses and then some days she’ll wear her hat and then refuse to wear her sunglasses.

Having both options is essential for any day out in the sun!

Keeping Sanitized: Baby & Toddler Summer Essentials

Another major part of my baby and toddler summer essentials is a list of products to help keep my family healthy and germ-free (ultimately keeping away sickness too!)

These are the products I always have on hand whenever we go shopping, out to eat, or pretty much anywhere that’s a public area.

We live in New York City- so that’s pretty much everywhere!

I also included my favorite house products that are not only disinfecting but totally safe to use around little ones.

Baby and Toddler Summer Essentials

Favorite Sanitizing Products

Travel Lysol Spray

Whenever I need to quickly clean a large surface that I can’t wipe down, I spray it down for 2 seconds with this disinfectant spray and I’m good to go.

This works especially well when you need to quickly clean down a shopping cart where your little one needs to sit in.

Travel Clorox Wipes

These travel wipes are super handy when you need to wipe down surfaces such as public tables, handles, bars, and chairs. One quick wipe and you’re all set!

Non-Bleach Antibacterial wipes

These wipes are awesome for cleaning any surface that your little one is going to directly touch, such as shopping cart bars. These wipes contain no bleach and are baby safe so they are great to always have on hand.

Lysol Laundry Sanitizer

I can talk about this stuff all day! This laundry sanitizer is great for when you want to make extra sure your clothes are disinfectant and properly sanitized. I add a cap full to any load where we sat in a public place for a long time or visited a high traffic area, such as a park or restaurant.

This laundry sanitizer has been gold during this pandemic too!

Seventh Generation Disinfectant Spray

I love this disinfectant spray because it is 100% baby and toddler safe for your home! It’s completely natural made with essential oils s you can spray until your heart is content, even with the little ones around!

I always spray down the diaper bag whenever we get home with this disinfectant spray so I get rid of all the germs.

Works like a charm!

It also gives you great peace of mind knowing everything is clean and sanitized so your family can stay safe & healthy.

There you have it!

Here are all of my favorite baby and toddler summer essentials that help me always feel prepared.

With these essentials, you’ll always have what you need so you never feel like you have to pull your hair out!

So now, if you ever find yourself in a pickle and your little one wants to run into the sprinklers, you won’t be like me running around trying to find sunblock– you’ll be totally prepared!

Happy Summer!

Always With Love, Brianna

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